Guy friend behaving strange! Is he attracted to me or a pervert?

Question

i have this german guy friend (not too close, but we hang out at times)..he seems to be a nice guy..but lately i have noticed him looking at my bust line quite a few times while talking ..I intentionaly noticed if he did this while talking to other girls as well, but he did not! even if they had deep necklines..whats up with him..

PS: Just for the records, i am an average size (34B) and do not wear plunging necklines..

Answer 1

perv

Answer 2

I agree, He is defiantly attracted to you .But , your just uncomfortable of how he is showing it. See, in most cases men tend to stare of into the -oh my - of what grabs their attention. You can say your bust is what caught his . Hopefully its harmless. If you hang out , why not bring it to his attention . Let him know your uncomfortable of his stares and make sure you let him know its impolite.Don't sweat it , since you do hang out (at times) I think he should be put in check regarding his impoliteness.

Good luck.

Answer 3

I don't know quite well the term pervert... but...

I am a guy, and I know one thing:

Every guy wants s*x..

Not that it's bad...

Women wants s*x as much as men. But it's emotional s*x, not physical s*x. But the same s*x it is.

And spare me of opinions like:"us women we are above s*x"

Well if women are above s*x, why they are looking for male partners?

s*x it's ok...

My advice is to not be so uptight about s*x. Be happy that guys are looking at your b*****s because that means they are beautiful and you are beautiful....

I don't want to take their side, because people are ignorants, men and women. And ignorants will hurt always through their actions.

If he wants to possess you for s*x, of course his attitude will be ugly and you will feel less than human no matter what u try.

But if you don't feel like this, what's wrong about s*x? It's good. Enjoy it.

It's natural you know? A man starts from physical s*x. A woman starts from emotions and stories about relationships.

What's essential is how u feel near him. If u feel relaxed and respected, don't bother he wants s*x. Explore the s*x, moreover. What's wrong in it?

Hope I helped...

Answer 4

I would say that your German guy friend is most definitely attracted to you & more specifically your 34B Bust ! Why don't you ask him "Hi (?) ! I see that you look at my Bust so much ! Would you like to see my bare b**bs in private ?" the next time that you hang out with him ! If he says "Yes I would !" then you could show them to him in private ! Make sure that if you do this that you have somebody that you can trust close by in the next room should anything untoward happen !