Guy friend problems (10 points)!?

Question

okay so here is the story.......

i like this guy (i have a bf though) and he likED me.

he thought that i said that i would dump my bf for him..but i never said that!!

and then when i didnt dump my bf he got all mad at me and is calling me a liar!!

i like him lot still but i like my bf a lil more.

i just wish he would get mad at me cuz i really want to be friends!!! HELP

Answer 1

tell him you dont know what you want and if he will give you time to think about it and you wont have pressure on you anymore cus you wont have a bf while your thinking about it. youll be more open minded. and if your releived if and when you take a break or whatever, then you know your probably gonna love being with the other guy.  

Answer 2

If he doesnt believe you then you seriously need to dump him because then he'll keep this up and worse will start spreading rumors about you to his guyfriends too. And if you like your friend, then tell him you have a boyfriend and if he's true, he might just wait for you.  

Answer 3

don't worry this happened to me just talk to him about it tell him that you like him but more as a friend then boyfriend hang out some time and make it feel like you just want to be friends and nothing more.

Answer 4

Best advice: NEVER EVER DUMP YOUR BF OVER A BOY!!!

Boys come and go all the time. Your very young and believe me, there will be many other boyfriends. A friend though, a real friend, doesn't come around often! If he can't accept your best friend, then you really don't need him. Get out while you can!

Answer 5

if he really liked you your boyfreind he wouldent think your a lier

Answer 6

you can't go round telling people you like them if you have a boyfriend. it causes complications. its simple: if you're serious about the other guy, dump your boyfriend for him. if you aren't, explain to him you are staying with your boyfriend but, albeit a cliche, you still wanna be friends. if he gets mad its kind of your own fault for telling him you like him when your with someone. next time think of your actual boyfriend's feelings as well.

Answer 7

first of all if you like someone else other than your bf..thats not good. i suggest you leave him.

yeh maybe not for the guy who likes you..but no relationship is going to work when you like someone else.

if you have even the slightest feelings for another while being with your bf..then you should not be with him. especially when it comes to future plans.

if you want a serious relationship you gotta find someone you like so much you wont like anyone else.

if not..then tell him that you want to be friends and he needs to understand that you're happy with your current bf and you're not leaving your current bf for him. if he won't be your friend then he really doesn't like you enough.

Answer 8

avently he will come around just give him time..thats all they need is time cause there men!lol but yh just give him time n mayb if you n ur guy dont work out take the chance n go out wit him

Answer 9

You should just think who you like more and who is nice to you and who will be there for you, and then you have your answer. I hope I helped.

Answer 10

Say that you are sorry for him thinking that you would break up with your boyfriend, but you aren't. Make sure that it doesn't sound that you are acussing him of lieing though, he may just have heard you wrong. But anyway just say that and say that you still want to be friends with him, but if he doesn't let it go then leave it, he wouldn't be worth your time.

Answer 11

I Think You Should Explain To Your Friend That You Like Him,But Your Not Breaking Up Wth Your Current Boyfriend Just Because Of Him And If He Doesnt Accept That,Maybe Hes Not That Good Of A Friend..

Answer 12

Don't even bother, it's like what, high school.

Answer 13

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Answer 14

ok if you like your bf stay with him and just tell the other guy you didnt say that and if he really likes you he'll get over himself and go back to being friends but if your truely commited to ur bf just tell the other guy you juss wanna be friends and maybe if your meant to be your meant to be

i've been here before