Guy help.. Please guys, I need your help, and girls too if you want......?

Question

I have a really hard time reading guys. Usually it's the other way around, but this is actually the first time I am completely lost. Ok. so I met this guy last week, he asked me out to dinner and found out we have a lot in common. We went back to his house and watched a movie and he put his arm around me, then took me home when the movie was over. When we got to my house, he walked me to the door and gave me a kiss. The next day, he asked when we were going to hang out again and asked if I wanted to go to the lake on Labor Day, I said yes, so we went to the lake yesterday and I had loads of fun. He took me out to eat again, then we went back to his house and he introduced me to his parents and was playing with my hair on the couch. He grabbed my butt (playfully, not perverted) lol and then when it was time for me to leave, he kissed me, and paused and kissed me again, took me home and kissed me again. Now he keeps saying "the next time we hang out" after every date. And now I'm wanting to go to the Journey concert and he said "Well maybe we can go, I'll see what I can do to make that happen" I know all of the signs are there but I just don't know. Do you think he wants a relationship out of this, or just someone to hang out with. I really like this guy. Please help... I'm kinda stumped. Neither one of us has told the other how we feel, so I'm just confused. Thank you.

Answer 1

You just met him last week. You met his parents on the second date. And he 'playfully' grabbed your butt. He is moving wayyyyyyy too fast. And you are letting it happen. Slow things down or the two of you will be burned out in a couple months.

Answer 2

Well,  he  sounds  like  a  really  nice  guy,  but  doesn't  sound  like  he  is  bowled  over  with  you.  Here's  where  I  differ  from  you...

I  would  end  the  date  first  and  not  wait  for  him  to  do  that.

I'm  not  sure  I'd  just  "hang out"  with  him  at  his  house,  too  much.  And  especially  not  if  his  parents  aren't  home.

As  much  as  you  want  to  go  to  the  Journey  concert,  it  has  to  be  his  suggestion,  not  yours.

I  would  not  tell  him  how  I  feel  about  him  even  if  he  tells  you  how  he  feels  about  you.  You  need  to  keep  a  little  mystery  about  yourself.

Without  telling  him  in  actual  words,  let  him  know  that  you  have  a  life;  places  to  go  and  things  to  do.  You're  not  sitting  home  all  alone  waiting  for  him  to  phone.  (When  he  phones,  make  small-talk  for  10  minutes,  then  politely  excuse  yourself  and  get  off  the  phone.)  If  he  wants  a  date  with  you,  he  needs  to  phone  about  3  days  in  advance.

As  far  as  a  r/s  goes,  in  his  mind,  he    already  has  one,  kinda.  

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Answer 3

Its possible he is just saying "hang out" so as not to scare you. It is also possible he is looking for "friends with benefits."