Guy issues... plz help me anyone...?

Question

ok so... my bf is a really great guy and i realllllly like him.. like a lot... not to mention he's a great kisser... but i just found out that this guy.. lets call him Al likes me and a lot of other ppl liked me but i liked him b4 i was going out w/ eli but he's like best frends w/ my ex (me and my ex r still good frends) and he was like oh off limits, but then my ex started flirting w/ Al's almost gf and now they're all flirtsy and my ex told al he didnt care... so anyways i've gotten to know al a lot better and he's totally like me... we have so much in common and i can really relate to him and i told him i like him but cuz i have a bf theres nothin i can really do... (him and my bf are frends also :|) but i REALLY like al too and i cant stop thinking about him... but i also really like my BF but im not the heart break type... i just need to know what i shud do... im trying to give it some time and let things kinda flow until something happens but idk.... plz help im really desperate :| thank u so much :)

missy J

Answer 1

you are obviously in high school, where you can do these things and get away with them.... break up with bf a and date new lovey dovey bf b. Then break up with B and continue dating a. Repeat until college comes. your welcome.  

Answer 2

It's not very fair to your BF if you have stronger feelings for "Al" than you do him. You should seriously analyze your situation with your boyfriend, because it seems to me you don't like him as much as you think you like him. Otherwise, why would other guys be catching your eye?

Just be careful with your decision. You can't break up with one, mess with the other, and go back to the first.