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I need help please at least try to help me?

Theres this guy I really like. We've been talking a lot recently and I've known him since 3 months ago. Were not going out but he says he wants to see me and I keep saying not until I get my license. Right now I just asked him when was the last time he had s*x and he said one month ago. I like him so much I don't think he likes me though because even though he hasnt seen me in 2 and a half months he went and did this. I mean i know i dont own him but whenever we make sexual comments he always says be careful and it doesnt seem like he doesnt want me to do it with other guys even though he knows im a virgin.

33 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.

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32 minutes ago

should i stop talking to him as much? I mean im crying right now and he doesnt even know. I cant tell him that i'm jealous of him doing this.

Answer 1

He's being a guy, venting it out else where, I don't think you can have any thing solid relationshipwise until you / he meet up.  

Answer 2

If he likes you, then he'll come talk to you.

Don't worry. We all have a path, sometimes it just won't turn out the way you might think.

As Robert Frost said, 'I can some up everything I've learned about life in 3 words, "it goes on" .'

So this pain, this misery, will happen again. Your heart will hurt a 100 times, but it will get better 101 times.

The One for you is out there.

You might just like him because you want a relationship.

Believe it or not, s*x isn't everything. When you think about a certain guy, and you think s*x, maybe it's just your fantasy or dream. It doesn't mean that you have deep feelings for him. You might say he is, but that is just a trick by your brain.

But you have to sort this out, we don't know everything about you, and in order to solve this problem, we'd need to know that. Good Luck, and I hope that it works out for you.

Answer 3

Stop talking to him for a while.

Answer 4

Ummm...I'm thinking you need to find someone who will treat you better than this.  If he were honest and decent, he'd wait for you....not forever of course...but come on a month.  Who wants sloppy leftovers from other girls he's racking???  Dry your tears my dear...have faith that there are nice guys out there...don't settle for one person right now...get to know people and have respect for yourself...don't settle!