Guy question:how many of you got divorced pay c/s,and had this happen to you?

Question

like your getting on with your life,starting to make enough money to survive on your own,then POW the ex brings you back to court for more c/s and puts you back into not being able to survive on your own.well I'm getting into that situation where in a few months i will be able to get my own place,but I'm kinda leery about it.p.s.i live with my brother not ex to let you all know.oh and i do pay my c/s every time its due,I'm not at all behind.

Answer 1

i had a friend go through this and it hurt to see him like this.   how old are your kids?  i mean how much longer do you need to go through with the c/s?  you have rights too!!!! if she brings you back to court for more money,

tell the judge ...

... that you can't get your place cuz of her.

... that if she keeps asking for more money to bring receipts in of where the money is going to.  you know it's not all going for the kid(s).

... that she does nothing to get a decent job to support herself.

... get more custody of the kids.  if you have 50-50 it will be impossible for her to ask for more money cuz you have the kids half the time.

long story, short if you can prove to the judge that you need the cash and she's making it impossible for you to live, and you can prove that she's not using the money for the kid and she's not getting a job of her own, then the judge may help you out.