Guy troubles what should i do?

Question

ok so there is this guy i really really like. he is a life guard at the pool in my neighbor hood. he is the same age is me, 15. i go to the pool like every day and he sometimes talks to me. i wish he could see how much i like him. what should i do, tell him or forget him?

Answer 1

Why don't you ask him to hang out in a different setting besides the pool, because he is working and might not be able to give you the full attention you deserve. Suggest that you hang out when he gets off work or one day that your both free and go grab some food - something casual that you would do with any of your friends. Talk to him and if the time is right to tell him how you feel, do it then. If not, just get to know him better and have fun spending time with him.

Answer 2

Search him on myspace wear a bikini pretend to drown ask him to join a breath holding contest. lol  

Answer 3

Just tell him straight out. Playing hard to get doesn't work. Or if you don't feel comfortable telling him, just keep talking to him, it will get easier if you truly like the guy :D

Answer 4

Talk to him, and start out as friends first. This would be a good way to get his number/screenname. The more you talk, you will be able to find out if hes interested in you. Then take things from there. Dont forget about him yet! Theres always a chance!

Answer 5

you can get to know him as a friend 1st but its still too young for 15 year old to go for relationship. this depend on how far one go, if you really love him alot and could such a relationship sustain till marriage age of say even 21 yrs old which is 6 years from now? its important to keep focus of your current priority.

Answer 6

That really depends. I know some people at that age have already had dozens of boyfriends and have no problem just telling a guy that they like them. Others- like my self, lol- who really just want to wait until I know that the guy I like- and at this point I really really know how much and why i like them- likes me in return. I'm set on letting the guy make the first move, but everyone's different- lol not many people follow that as a guideline. You choose.

Answer 7

You never know till you try, so if you like him that much, defenitly try to see if he likes you. and if so then...(:

Answer 8

get to know him better, like the answer before mine, become his friend. and once you know him and you still like him like you do now, tell him you like him. you never know what could happen!

Answer 9

try to play hard to get. let him *** to u. dont act anxious

Answer 10

Listen - you only get one life, so you might as well have fun with it. Ask him out after a while. If he says yes, you will be happy. If he says no, don't let it get you down and go after someone else (you can still be friends with him). Whenever I want to ask someone out, I always get nervous and think about it too hard. Lately I have decided not to think about asking someone out. I just do it before I have time to think about it. This helps me get over my fear. And lately, it's worked haha! So try that, and if he says no don't let it get you down.

Answer 11

i think you should tell him straight out

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