Guy who has hated me for 5 years, suddenly suggesting a truce?

Question

There's this guy that's my age. He's spazzy, annoying, constantly swears his head off, and keeps annoying me and my friends. He's hated me for 5 years, only a little after I moved here. We (me and my friends) hate him back, but recently he suddenly suggested a kind of truce. It hasn't been working that well, but he certainly is being a lot nicer. I have no idea what's going on,what should I do?

Answer 1

Someone that "noisy" needs a lot of attention and is just as apt to be bothered by people not liking him as any one. Just because he seems outgoing and obnoxious, dosen't make him impervious to critisism. He obviously is bothered by your reaction to his annoying behaviour. Your best bet is to treat him as if he is someone in need of a friend, You decaring a truce won't mean that you have to put up with any of his nonsense. Instead, because he asked for the truce, be there for him but let him know when he steps out of line. As long as he doesn't break a major code, be friendly with any critisism of what he does. This attitude will help you with puting your relationship into a friendly and equal position with him.

Answer 2

something fizzy.....

Answer 3

dont listen. too weird.

Answer 4

Sit back and watch.

Answer 5

Hey, accept it.  Life's too short to hold grudges.  

Answer 6

Trust until he gives you a reason not to.  If he's sincere you just might make a very good friend out of it.  He may have matured over the last 5 years and sees the animosity for what it is....senseless.  If he should be playing a cruel game then in the end he's going to look like an azz, not you for wanting only to get along.  Bury the hatchet and see what happens.....crossing my fingers it's all good. :)

Answer 7

Sounds like hes starting to like you or one of your friends. Maybe he wants to make some new friends. But its probably him liking one of you!!!!

Answer 8

I don't know how old you are, but it could be that after 5 years he has finally grown up a little bit.Maybe he realises what an annoying infant he has been.It could be he genuinly feels bad about it and is trying to make amends.Give the guy the benefit of the doubt if he is being a lot nicer:)

Answer 9

You should give this guy a chance,

maybe he really did change....

after maybe two weeks if he is still nice to you and the truce is working then become friends.

The best way to give him a chance is to forget the fact that you guys hated eachother for 5 years

If he becomes mean again

hes an a*****e

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Answer 10

Did you recently get b***s? it could be he is noticing you, and wants a piece of the pie.

Answer 11

make a truce

if it doesn't work out

o well

Answer 12

either he likes you but i think.........

IT'S A TRICK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 13

ive been in a situation like yours and the best thing to do is to see how it goes for a week or so and remember his personality. sometimes he could be being himself and treating you the same way he treats his friends but sometimes he could just really being mean to you. if he is being either of those things you should tell him you dont think  its working out or that you want him to be a bit nicer.