Guys, can you get an erection if you are hurt?

Question

My ex bf and I had an argument...actually a huge argument. Feelings were majorly bruised.

I suggested a cool off period, and he took that badly. His ex left him for another men in the past and he's always got trust issues. He took it really hard when I suggested that cool off period.

We reconnected nonetheless some time after. He was the one who wanted to have s*x, but he couldn't get it hard. I tried to stimulate him like he use to like it..but it was just soft, even though he said he wants it up.

Could it be, he is still hurt and it affected him? Just curious, because during the process, he kept calling me a s**t and a w***e and made lots of condescending remarks.

I left in the middle of this and never went back. We talked after...but only as friends.

Answer 1

I am sorry to say this...

Maybe he just want to have s*x for the sake of having it.

Inside him, he might be still thinking of his ex and could not get over it yet.

And he is still definitely hurt and it is still affecting him.

He might need to find someone whom he love more than his ex.

Answer 2

He wasnt as attracted to you and he still wasnt over it.

Cheers!

Answer 3

you said at the beginning that his ex left him and he was insecure so the shock of this and the argument made for a floppy little man