Guys, help me out, im being played, need answers!!?

Question

i found out that my friend (girl) has been playing me and leading me on. she flirts with me all the while has a b/f. she only sees me as a friend, but led me to think otherwise. how do i act and how do i let her know she aint pushing me around no more.

i know for sure, shes using me as "one of the guys that follows her around"

Answer 1

dont flirt back  and just kind of ingor her flirty  comments and call her on them being why are you talking this way to me when you have a bf.  

Answer 2

Play it cool, quit following her around and when you get a chance to blow her off...do it.

Answer 3

I am going through similar situation right now..

Here is what i want to tell you. She is playing with your mind and feeding of from it.

This is what you need to do. IGNORE her. act like she is nothing but a friend like the rest of you friends. if she flirts with you don't flirt back. i know  it's hard but trust me it works!

once you do that she is going to wonder why you ain't flirting back? she is going to wonder if she is not as good of a looking as she use to or what?   I guarantee you that she is doing it for self confidence.

Every time i ignore this girl that i work with, she goes nuts. she'll ask me all day if I'm okay? she'll start being real nice and act like she cares what i am feeling.. but trust me, She gets right back in to flirting with me again.  

Answer 4

Don't hate the player, hate the game.

Just give her the cold shoulder.

Answer 5

It's an ego thing for her.

You following her around like a little puppy and getting all hot and bothered by her flirting makes her feel like she's something really special.

And she may well be, in her own way. But it's a sign of immaturity and actually very sad that she needs other people around her in an admiring crowd in order to believe that she's OK.

If you're content to play the role of "another adoring fan-boy" in her life, then that's fine. Maybe she's cool enough that you think she deserves all the adulation you can give. But if you're fed up with playing that role in her soap-opera and you feel she's treating you disrespectfully - as seems to be the case - then just find something else more productive and positive to do with your time. If she does the flirting thing again, well, you know she's just doing that to try and keep you on that puppy leash, so just ignore it and interpret everything she says and does as being totally innocent. Maybe imagine her being someone your grandmother's age saying and acting as she does. It may be flirty in a very weird way, but it's not something you'd respond to, is it?

Answer 6

Dont be so serious!!!

I have dated some many girls on

http://www.casualloving.com

They are the same as the girl u mention.....

Just have fun ,,, dnt be so serious