Guys, i have been with my guy for 4 years almost, how can i spruce up our relationship?

Question

Ok i need help. I feel that my fiance is getting bored in the bed, and everywhere else. We live in in ny and long island. What should we do?

he doesnt drink, i like to have some wine, hes not sporty and hes lazy...im not lazy..i love romance and the beach..he hates the beach but loves the pool. he loves s*x all the time..im not sexual at all but dont mind it every now and then.

he treats me well when he is in a good mood and he love me and gave me a humongous ring...even though he doesnt have any money at this point..the ring was a 5 digit figure. etc...what should we do? where should we go? every friday night we have nothing to do nowhere to go...we lost many friends because we were so busy with each other so we are quiet lonely too. help! and byt he way ...we are normal!!! we are 24 and 27 and i have a graduate degree.

Answer 1

Why don't you go for long drives on weekends? My boyfriend and I are pretty much done with the clubbing scene, it just gets boring. Plan a new trip every weekend...these places don't have to be expensive. Have "quicky" s*x in unusual places if you can. This can trigger a good thrill for both of you. If all else fails, agree on "taking a break" (NOT break up or anything like that) ...just to build up sexual tension. Hope I helped, all the best :)

Answer 2

this is so difficult ..

i guess you reach the point where you guyz cant find words to say to each other....

try to find somthing new in ur life that might spice up your relationship

it could be a new friend an old friend a baby just anything new

he is the man he should always find somthing romantic for you but no harm if you try so

goodluck to you