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Guys, what would it take for you to approach a woman who interested you?

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I find myself making eyes at guys who are making eyes at me, but they never seem to get the nerve to come over. I understand this is hard for a guy to do, but what encouragement do you need, and what would it take for you to approach a woman? (I'm 27)

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Smile and mouth the word "Hi". If he doesn't approach you, he never will.
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A big. shy smile goes a long way. If he doesn't have the nerve after that, move on. If he cant handle walking over and saying hello, how will he have the nerve to handle the unknown throughout your future lives together...Just my 2 cents.
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Approach me first and ask a question or something and I'll gradually get braver. Why does the guy always have to make the first move?
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It's that big booger dangling out of your nose.......
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  Making eyes is not enough for me.Why does it always have to be guys approaching girls? Girls should also swallow their pride and approach us.

  If the girl says hi to me,it would encourage me to start a conversation.
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approach them...they will find it s**y!
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maybe they are "making eyes" at you for another reason.
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Nothing... lol, I am way to shy to approach any woman I don't know, not to mention there are too many weirdos out there so she'll probably just think your one of them, and not to mention when you are attractive the first thing we think is that you have a big BF that we really don't want to get hit by.
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Well it doesn't really take me that much to approach a girl I'm interested in. But in your case, if you smile, I'll be right on my way there to you. :)

I also agree with Robin.
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Flash him the goods
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MAYBE THE WAY U LOOK BACK AT HIM IS TELLING HIM THAT YOUR NOT INTERESTED...IF UR KINDA BEING SHY, SOME MEN DONT LIKE THAT IN A WOMAN, ESPECIALLY AROUND THAT AGE.

THEY MIGHT WANT A WOMAN WHOS FLASHY (VERY SELF CONFIDENT AND KNOW SHES A BAD *****) AND U DONT GIVE THEM THAT VIBE.

BE MORE AGGRESIVE...YOU MAKE THE FIRST MOVE.

NO MATTER HOW MUCH IT MAKES U BLUSH OR AS EMBARRASING IN MIGHT BE FOR A GUY TO TELL HIS FRIENDS THAT U MADE THE FIRST MOVE, I GURANTEE THAT HE AND HIS FRIEND THINK ITS s**y. BECAUSE BY U GOING TO HIM IT SAYS " I KNOW I'M s**y AND I KNOW U CANT RESIST ME"

GUYS LOVE IT...TRUST ME, I >>>USED<<< TO BE A PLAYER.

EVERYONE PLEASE ANSWER...

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A smile? after that I dont think there's much you could do, maybe approach him yourself? Or tell them to grow some balls! lol
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a little boost in self confidence is all thats really needed

when I was younger (now 30) I didnt have a problem with this

now after scorn relationships, and harsh insults from some, self esteem is a little out of wack. But the more I build up that esteem, and confidence, the easier it gets. If I read the eyes right, and a door is opened, Im gonna make that sacrifice.
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