Guys, would you want a girl to ask you out rather than you asking her?

Question

or do you think he guy should ask the girl out?

Answer 1

Whoever wants to should take the initiative- there's no moral law dictating who should ask out whom, only tradition & convention.  If you want to, more power to you- I know a few kind, attractive, single girls who don't get asked out because men find them "too beautiful" (& hence unapproachable).  

The best series of dates I had was with a woman who "effectively" asked me out.  She was approachable- easy to talk to & easygoing- & I asked her to join my friends & I for some stimulating conversation.  She left her number with me before I asked for it.  We went out for a number of months after that.  I never thought of her as "easy".  However, some guys might.  You take the chance of being misread whenever you say or do anything.

Whether you want to "effectively" ask someone out or be forward, do so with confidence, without trying to win approval.  Try to ask him out in a non-crowded setting.  That way, it will take off some of the "buddy" pressure- you know, the pressure that can cause guys to act apish around others.  Lots of guys would like to have a woman ask them out, but they might not know how to respond.

Answer 2

ask me out. that would be awsome, you would go to #1 in my book

Answer 3

i would want to ask the guy....lol.

Answer 4

guy should ask the girl out but a girl could if she wanted to

Answer 5

I guess its nice to have a girl ask you (my gf asked me) cos its a compliment, basically. It also means the guy can make the choice while the girl waits in agony ;) . Traditionally guys ask out girls, and plucking up the courage to ask is all part of the game... but yeh, i think that if you want a guy to go out with you and you're dropping hints that he's missing, go for it! At least make sure he knows how you feel. (im assuming you're a girl)

Answer 6

Actually, I would prefer she kidnap me, have her way with me, and drop me back home.  That way...I've spent as little energy as possible.

Answer 7

I would like it, if she asks me out. Every men/boy would like that, but many guys would see that woman as cheap or easy

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