Guys' opinions would be helpful?

Question

I've been at the same university for over a year now.

I met this guy last year (we have the same major), and he was always nice.

He complimented my eyes once by saying "Your eyes are so pretty. I could stare all day at them"

I shrugged it off since I had a boyfriend at the time.

He had asked a girl out since then. (Last year)

But now it's a little different....

Now it's a new semester, he broke up with that girl, and I'm single.

He goes out of his way to talk to me a lot. (More so then last year)

He asked me to hang out with him, and I did. It was great.

He hugs me, picks me up and says, "I love my Lily"

Always greets me when I arrive

He is a friendly, outgoing person, so I am a bit confused.

He pokes, touches, but never inappropriately.

We talk a lot about our favorite movies, shows, and interests.

He laid his head on my shoulder because he was tired.

I massaged his head and I think he didn't mind it :)

He compliments my clothing and has offered to ride me home.

I think he was persistent because he kept asking "Are you sure you don't want a ride?"

But this Friday, he kind of ignored me!

He sat with another girl in class (usually it's me)

But I noticed him looking at me (or atleast in my direction)

When I left the room he stared right at me.

I am not a jealous type person, but it kinda hurt...

What should I do on Monday?

Should I give up on this guy? Or should I play some mind games of my own?

Does this kid even like me?

Answer 1

No games.  No tricks.  No ploys, plays, or any other sports metaphor.  And especially no giving up.  

If you like this guy, ask him out.  Simple as that.  My guess, he gave up on you.  He was looking for some sort of an indicator that you liked him, and you did not give it.  It's not your fault, but, can you really blame him for trying to get away from a relationship that, for all appearances, wasn't getting off the ground?

If you really like this guy, let him know; if you don't then let him move on.

Answer 2

Uhm, yah, talk to him, he was probably sick of you not getting  a clue that he liked you, or didn't understand, and was trying to make you jealous, but you never know, if you realy like him, and want go out, then just talk.

Answer 3

sounds like he doesnt know what he wants.

dont make yourself available to his mood or whims.  

Answer 4

ok, he got you.  he likes you, flirted, tried to make you jelous and you got jelous.  maybe he wanted you to make the first move?

Answer 5

I'd say he likes you, but you should play some games of your own now. Make him want you more.

Answer 6

don't give up on him, especially if you still like him cuz he's TOTALLY into you, i can completely tell from all of what you said so dont give up. it seems like he's just playing hard to get now so you can do the same or if youve got the courage you can make the first move and just see if he wants to see a movie or something this weekend. talk to him in class. anyway, he definitely likes you and hes been flirting with u alot it seems like.

good luck with this guy ;)

Answer 7

He's looking for s*x.  Your not his ideal looking girl but your a good candidate for getting s*x.  He's keeping you on the back burner for a port in the storm.  Maybe you will get your chance to show him what your personality is like and that you are a nice girl in the future.  But I see some putting out on your part to get the chance to show this guy who you are.