Guys...Can You Answer Something For Me??

Question

so when you see hot girls somewhere... why do you wolf whistle or wink at girls?

i mean i get it every now and again and it just really annoys me..

why don't you just come up to us and give us your number or something?

also what do you want the girl to do when you do it to her??

Answer 1

I guess guys do it to get you attention. The ones who do not approach you are either shy or scared to come up to you. As far as giving you our number seems cocky to me. I would ask for the girls # instead.

Answer 2

well it means they like you and are too nervous or just acting stupid

Answer 3

Not all guys do that, only the losers generally, in my opinion.

Ignore the guys, those that do it want you to chat to them, but don't. Like you said, you want someone who'd come up to you to chat, and with respect too.

Answer 4

I don't.  Those guys who do are just a******s

Answer 5

i don't do that it just seems so classless,  

Answer 6

I'm not a guy, but i can answer this to a degree.

Any idea how hard it is for a guy to walk up to a girl? Any idea how hard it is if he's ever done it and a girl was nasty to him?

He wants to see the reaction. He wants to see if there's a chance in heck. He also wants to impress his buddies by being cocky and a bit piggish.

He wants the girl to look back and show some interest. If he walked up to any girl and gave her his number, he'd have boyfriends wanting to beat him up. Girls who would shriek wiht laughter and be nasty. And he'd look like a s*****k in front of his guy friends. He also wants you to know he thinks your hot and hopes you have such low self esteem that you'll ahve s*x with him for it.

Most men learn this behavior will get them low self esteemed girls. How do they know you aren't one of them till they try it? There's no way they can tell.

Ignore it. It's rude and it's borish behavior. It's happening less and less. 30 years ago a woman could hardly go without hearing it. Now, it's far and few between. Thank goodness!  

Answer 7

I wonder why all these years I thought it was to get a girl's attention - to see if she'd notice or if she'd get all embarrassed & giggle & laugh or blush - to break the ice.  Little did we know they'd cop an attitude & get their butt on their shoulders because some guy paid a little attention to them.  Bless their hearts.

Answer 8

well sometimes they do it cuz there with friends and they whanna be cool u know, sometimes they do it cuz there drunk, but i dont usually see people do that, just like in movies and stuff, im preatty sure that most guys know that it doesnt actually work

Answer 9

I want em to whistle back!

thats just my way of saying you are cute and good looking, and we want ya but dont have a chance.

Answer 10

look just enjoy it while you can it wont last forever, and please its not like a guy kicking you in the leg. i mean how painful can it be? just be glad you a hottie and guys are even paying you attention at all.

Answer 11

Yea and to all the guys that DO do this.. f'n stop.. it doesn't get you anywhere. ....Pervs

Answer 12

Usually the only gals that complain are the, let's just say...obese, unattractive ones.  And before anyone gets their panties in a bunch, there are groups of women that live off that attention because their self esteem is in the toilet.  

Just be flattered and move on.

Answer 13

because some girls get attitudes and act shady so we its easier and as far as the s*x get invole dont jus lay there and take it give it back too

Answer 14

It really annoys you?    Good.

It's annoying to have shallow girls posting questions in Men's Health that have nothing whatsoever to do with the subject.

Answer 15

Wow, so good to know that you can post a question that's not related to Men's Health.

Most of us do it because we don't want to be shut down by some selfish snob 'hot chick'. See we see you, you look hot and as most of us know even though we have the balls to give you or ask you for your number, most of the time there's some nasty 'boyfriend' breathing down on us, even if you have no relationship with that guy we really don't want to 'scrap' if you will with some smelly r****d.

If it annoys you then just ignore it, you fuel the fire JUST by looking. I've already told you why we don't just walk up and give you our number nor ask for it. The ones that do it, they want attention so there's your answer. If they're that desperate to get laid then I have to laugh at them because s*x isn't everything.

Also, can I have your number? :D

Answer 16

u go girl !!!! as if theyre sooo confident! but all they do is be pig headed from the background! i gather not allll of you ! but u go ! loool

Answer 17

It means we want you to flash us, no commitment, no lasting relationship just the sweet experience of a hot girl showing what she's got.

Answer 18

dont know

Answer 19

Some guys do that to get a response.  It's usually not a positive response, but a negative response will do.  Attention is attention.

I never had that inclination.

But while we're on the topic...

Do pickup lines work?  I don't think so.  I've used a few, but now stick to the really funny ones.  At that point, it's just humor.  And everyone involved gets that it's humor.

Does actually giving the girl your phone number work?  Not for me.

What works is figuring out a girls interests, and showing some interest.  Of course, it doesn't hurt to be clean, sharp dressed, smart, and s**y.

Answer 20

since im a feminist, i usually scowl at *men* and file sexual harassment at the expense of my sister who is a prosecutor. I work with perverted justice, be thankful im setting equal oppurtunities

Answer 21

this gesture, is what seperates real men from boys.