Guys: Can you explain to me why this happens when fiance and I have s*x?

Question

Sometimes fiance and I have s*x twice in one night. The first time, we're both wide awake and it's pretty good but he seems to be holding back and taking his time. He moans quietly and is very gentle.

However, the second time we have s*x, it's way different and in my opinion better. Normally I'll be sleeping, then he wakes me up by kissing my neck and pulling me close to him. For lack of a better word, he "ravishes" me like i'm so s**y and hot he can't keep his hands off me.

The s*x is a lot wilder, faster and harder. He starts grunting and saying dirty things in my ear. He seems so aroused and horny.

Why is it like that?

I've asked him a few times and he said he didn't know.

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Discuss it with your man. Talk to him sthat you both are on the same page. It should be Great all of the time.He doesn't know unless you tell him. Same with him telling you.

Answer 3

he might just be hornier at some times

Answer 4

Maybe he is half asleep and is dreaming about his boyfriend.

Answer 5

You are blazing with the questions girl!  The first time you are intimate it is for you.  He takes his time so that you can enjoy him and to make it last.  Once he releases and gets his second wind it normally takes more activity before he climaxes.  And that, is the rest of the story!

Answer 6

he was asleep the first time

Answer 7

hahaha lol maby he is sleep sexing :P

Idk lol.

just enjoy it!

Cheers!

Answer 8

i know this one first off he has spent the hour or so fantising and planing what he is goung to do to u then he knows that he can last longer the secont time so he can give it hill all with out the worry of cumming to soon.

Answer 9

Second time He is thinking of someone else,  

Answer 10

ha hes a sleep sexer

Answer 11

well mayb after he slept a while, he feels really horny when he wakes up and wants to have s*x wif u.

Answer 12

Chances are that he was having an "exciting" dream. So when he wakes you up, he is extremely excited. And he gets into it more, cause he is probably trying to relive the dream.

Answer 13

It's something about taking advantage of someone while they're sleeping that's s**y..  Y'all women do that to us men while we're sleeping too. Yours is not an isolated case. Also most men while they are leeping have a higher testerone hormonal level and be ready for s*x.

Answer 14

Did you check to see if it's the same guy...

Answer 15

The first time you all have s*x, he's awake and listening to his brain when he has s*x with you.

His brain is probably like, "Whoa Stud, slow down and take your time. This is your fiance, not some ho. Be romantic, kiss her gently, go slow, don't be too rough."

The second time you have s*x, he's been sleeping, so his brain hasn't quite kicked in yet.

So he's listening to his p***s which probably says, "Mmm, look at this s**y woman laying next to you sleeping. God, doesn't she look beautiful like this? And she's still naked from earlier! She smells so good and feel how soft and curvy her body is. You should totally bang her!"

EDIT: Barbie, please don't listen to Superdave. Apparently his wife has gained 50 lbs in the last 15 years, so he isn't turned on by her anymore. Here's the question where he talks about it: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...