Guys Only! If you want to marry a virgin, why?

Question

I'm waiting until I'm married, and I was wondering. This question is for guys who've already had s*x. And I want a more than just religious reasons here.

Be honest guys!

Answer 1

I'm a woman, but I can tell you that guys who want to marry a virgin have an ego problem. They like to think they are special because you chose for them to be your first.

My first husband (ex now) was my first and to this day brags that he was my first. But he taught me nothing in the bedroom and complained that I was so inexperienced and didn't know what to do to please him.

Years later I dated a man who was a virgin when I meet him. Then I understood what it was like for my first husband to be with a woman who didn't know anything about s*x.

I think it's great you want to be a virgin on your wedding day, it was important to me too at the time, but I will be honest with you. s*x is an important part of a marriage. Marriage is hard enough when you first get married and you don't want to add to that by having problems in the bedroom too. I personally would never again marry someone, that I had never had s*x with first.

I had a friend who didn't have s*x with her husband until after they got married. She said she was really sorry she didn't have s*x with him before the marriage, because if she had, she never would have married him. He was that bad in bed and time never improved the problem.

Answer 2

It really makes no difference to me.  s*x is an informality.  Don't misunderstand me.  I love s*x, but it is not a prerequisite to love.  If I wanted to marry a virgin, the reason would be because I love her and want to spend the rest of my life with her.  I would respect her wishes and never force myself upon her in any way.  

Answer 3

ok... i'm not a guy but.............

my hats off to you.....

my male cousin was going to wait till he married and talked to me and my husband so many times concerning this....

he is so glad he waited....

it was his personal preference....

Answer 4

keep waiting

Answer 5

I don't like and H.O. but i do prefere someone who knows what they are doing.

Answer 6

oay first off i apologize that i am not a guy, but i couldnt help myself because in my opinion you got some crappy anwers and i dont want those ***** nutz changing your mind to wait. and that is some ****** bullshit test driving a car, well we know how he treats his women, like ****.

okay i think waiting is a great idea, in some ways i wish i would have but then again im glad i didnt. everything has its ups and downs.

my cousin waited until she got married and she was in her 30s, and before she got married she was with the guy for 5 years.

your virginity is something special and any guy who takes it should feel lucky, proud, and loved.

plus you are reasuring him that you havent slept with 50 other guys and carryin some kinda STD.

and you get to acutally know each other instead of makin a relationship about s*x.

if i was a guy or well even a girl like i am i would marry a virgin without a doubt.

I think its a wonderful thing that you are doing and i really hope you stick to it and dont let some guy pull tricks on you for you to give it up.

good luck

Answer 7

i wouldn't marry a virgin... that's like buying a car without a test drive...

Answer 8

Why would you want to marry a guy that's not a virgin, but you yourself will be?