Guys PLEASE answer! I feel inadequate..is it normal?

Question

For men... Have you ever lost an erection while giving a girl oral? It has never happend to me before but this guy I am with does, or if we change positions sometimes. He gets it back quickly with stimulation, it's not like it goes away and we are done, but I have never experienced this before, and I feel like less of a woman. I understand I am getting older and I am not with raging hormone 19 year old boys anymore but he is in his 40's not 70's. Is it normal? Does it ever happen to you? Is it me? Is he not attracted to me? What could it be?

Answer 1

LOLOLOL, he's g*y. He fakes it.

Answer 2

Honey he's 40+ years old!! He's not going to be able to maintain an erection as well as he used to, he will loose it from time to time. He's not 19 either you know. He is going to start experiencing problems like that. Guys experience that at all ages as well. It's happened to me a couple times. But it has nothing to do with you. Try going to a s*x store or go on line and look up something called a c**k ring. It's a small inexpensive rubber ring that stretches and goes around the base of his p***s holding the blood vessels at the base of his p***s closed. That should help your problem, it will help him stay hard longer. But remember he's not 18 anymore he's getting older and might experience some problems but it has nothing to do with you.

-Connor

Answer 3

It sounds like Erectile Dysfunction.

Answer 4

MAYBE IT'S NOT YOU IT MIGHT JUST BE HIM. SOME GUYS WON'T GET AN ERECTION UNLESS THE ATTENTION IS ONLY ON THEM. MAYBE YOU SHOULD TRY WEARING LINGERIE AND ADDING FLICKS BEFORE AND DURING s*x. THIS WILL HELP DETERMINE WHO IT IS OR THEN AGAIN MAYBE HE JUST DON'T LIKE GIVING YOU ORAL  s*x.

Answer 5

nope, not me.  my pole stays like a rock til the fireworks.

Answer 6

its normal

Answer 7

has happened a few times, i'm certain that it isn't you

Answer 8

totally normal, happens all the time

Answer 9

It happens. It's normal. Don't take it personally.

It could be one or several of many factors.

The LEAST LIKELY is that it's you...or that he's not attracted to you.

Answer 10

He is probably just focusing on you so much he drops some. If he gets it right back then it isn't from lack of excitement.

Answer 11

this is normal that happens to everybody ...perfectly normal

Answer 12

Maybe you need to stimulate him too.

Answer 13

Everything sounds fine to me, especially when you say "...He gets it back quickly..."  I'm not sure what you're worried about.  If he has no control or can't maintain an erection enough to satisfy you, then that might become an issue.

It has happened to me and I don't worry about it.  I know (and so should you) that having s*x is a give and take.  It doesn't always have to be about layin' down some serious pipe.  It certainly has nothing to do with you.  

Also, you should be happy that you're getting oral at all.  There are many guys who just don't like it.  Don't think you're doing something wrong, it happens to most guys at some point in their lives.

Don't be so hard on yourself.   Sorry........I couldn't resist.