Guys. Would you be OFFENDED if..?

Question

You liked this girl, and you went to meet up with her and you met her close friend for the first time. and that friend told the girl (that you like) that she thinks your nice.. and she should go for you.. but your just a little immature.

What the friend said about you being immature, would you be offended? why would you be offended? or why not??

Answer 1

nop.

just prove her wrong.

Answer 2

well of course. you would feel like you have just been "c**k blocked" but mayb not literally. but girls always listen 2 their friends. thats the whole point of having you met her friends so they can judge you and then report back 2 her.

Answer 3

since i know for a fact that i am intelligent and my mom said i was very bright and smart I would not be offended. I would only feel sorry that that person did not take the time to get to know me. for if she did she would see what a really nice gentlemen i was...also...what is immature to one may not be to someone else. Be secure and happy with yourself. and no one can hurt you....Thanks mom for bringing me up right.

Answer 4

I would be offended, not enough to make an issue from it, but girls will always rely on their friends, so really the girl you like shuld make up her own mind, and to be honest I would probably be more offended by the friend being there.

Once I was helping this girl out with some work, so she was like oh thank you I owe u a drink, so of course (not having much experience with girls) I thought I'd be confident and say "well how about now" to which she willfully accepted.  I made a 2 hour journey back to my uni to meet her and she brought her friend, I really liked her and I was under the impression she may have liked me even a little!  Anyway, I got on with her friend really well and I can understand the many reasons she was there, but i just thought it was kind of impolite that A...I came up there to see her, and B....whether she liked me or not, I liked her and I had to make an effort to get on with her friend which meant dividing my attention and not being able to flirt with the one I liked!

If I were you nip this in the bud now, if you like her, get her away from her friends, make it clear you want to get to know her and have a private coffee or drink together and let her make up her own mind.  Also be nice to the friend, if she knows you heard her say your immature, it takes a mature person to rise above it, still be respectful and polite and make an effort to get on with her.  They will notice that in a good way!

Answer 5

Nope, offended not. But dude, girls like tons of different things in different times. Find the right time for being an immature :)

Answer 6

No, because that would be who i was and if she didnt like that then thats her problem

Answer 7

Any girls that use the word "immature" are stuck up,  jeez if your under 18 who gives a **** if your immature, it's fun being young and having a laugh.  I'd be offended and tell the girl to **** off.