Guys and Girls, 10 Points! Can you give me advice on this girl in my class?

Question

I am almost 21. This girl is 18. We are in a college class together, and we are in the same group of four together (our teacher made us be in groups.) My cousin is in our group too, and when I invited my cousin (who is also a girl) to join our group, she introduced me to this cute girl who is her friend and said "can she join too?!" And immediately, this girls yes got kinda wider, and she locked her eyes on mine. (Throughout that class period when we were talking, she ALWAYS gave me full eye contact when we spoke to each other.)

I've only made a couple of jokes around her, and she smiled and laughed at all of them so far....and one of the jokes was me being sarcastic. At the end of class, I told my group it was a pleasure meeting them. I wished her a good day, and then she was walking slowly (to allow me to continue talking with her, maybe?) so her and I talked for about 10 more seconds then we said bye.

The 2nd day of class, I walk into the classroom, and I look over to my right where the desks are, and her face and eyes are already locked onto me. She is sitting beside the other two people in our group, but there were no open seats. So, she smiles and waves at me, and then my other group members do too. After class, people are leaving the room, but before I approach the door, the girl is already looking at me again. So, (because I like her) I looked at her and we met eyes again, but I quickly looked at the other members of my group, and told them "Hey, I'd like to get together sometime early next week so we can go over chapter one." Yet again, this girl's eyes get a little bigger and she is kind of wide eyed, staring directly into my eyes, and she kinda had the semi-shocked look on her face. Nobody else had agreed to study yet, but she gave me full eye contact, and said "Okay!" LOL...I felt her tone was kind of like saying "Yeah, I'd like that."

Sorry that it seems I am being so specific about everything, but I would really like to ask this girl out sometime. She is friends with my cousin. So...

1. Does she have a crush on me? Would she say yes if I asked her out next week? (We've only known each other for 4 days.)

2. If she likes me, would she have mentioned it to my cousin?

3. Should I just ask her out sometime when class is over and say "Hey when do you get out of class for the day?" And then when she says "Right now" or "I have one more class to go to," should I then say "Well I am getting hungry and was wondering if you'd like to get something to eat with me?"

4. Can I tell if she likes me or not, just by the way her eyes look when she looks at me?

Answer 1

ignore every single thing that you wrote above. not a single person can tell you but her. u need to stop playign it safe and just say **** it and take the plunge, whats the worst that could happen?

Answer 2

yes you tell if she likes you or not, just by the way her eyes look .seriosly

Answer 3

1. YES she has a crush on you!

2. Depends on the girl. She's prolly told your cousin she thinks you're cute. Nothing serious, though. I wouldn't ask your cousin about it, though. She'll probably deny it.

3. Yes, that's a great idea. You're on the right track.

4. Ehh, varies from person to person. Apparently she looks at you a lot. That almost always means a girl likes you.

Hope this helped, but you've got most everything figured out already.

-elliesaurie*

Answer 4

Well if this is a friend of your cousin, I don't know they may not care either way.. I'd say probably not unless your cousin likes them?

If you want to know if she does like you ask her, what do got to loose?

Answer 5

You are so cute... I wish you were mine.

Anyway, just go up to her and be like "I see how you are working in our group and wow... you do so much. I want to thank you by taking you out sometime. Would you like to go?"

See what she says...

Answer 6

YES SHE LIKES YOU AND IS JUST DYING FOR YOU TO ASK HER OUT GO RIGHT AHEAD

Answer 7

im not to sure if she likes you but im kinda sure she dose. get to know her on the weekends when you study learn more about her im not sure if ur cousin will get mad but probally not beacuase she is friends with ur cousin if she doent like you then your cousin might get mad later in a class bring up a movie or somthing and ask  her if she saw it if she says no and she want to see it offer to take her then you can build a relation ship hope this helpedalso no moves on her in the theater unless you can read her and she likes you my email is [e-mail] tell me how it gose k man

Answer 8

It sounds like you already know the answer. Go for it!  

Answer 9

Yes she likes you. and go ahead just ask her out like you mentioned. Maybe she would have mentioned it to your cousin but who knows. She might not be the type of person to just go and tell her friends. Maybe she is like me and waits a while before telling anyone(depending on who the perosn is), and it might be kinda weird for her to tell her friend since you are her friends cousin. So its possible but it just depends.

Answer 10

wow from my point of view it sounds like she does like u. I mean the whole eye contact thing that really gives off a signal, If I was u , I'd do the whole study date thing and u guys talk about some school but then I'd bring her into conversation, joke around a bit, flirt some and then before u'd leave I'd be like hey you think u'd maybe like to hang out sometime like go grab something to eat or like a movie or somethind and just hang out and see what she says. I mean u can at least ask, but it seems like she does like u. Good luck!

Answer 11

1. Yes. You don't eye meat like that unless you want to ravish it.

2. Probably not. It's only been 4 days? Differs for different people but I don't blab about crushes to my friends that quickly. But maybe she said something nice about you at least.

3. Just ask her if she's free sometime that day or that week and if she'd like to hang out, grab some coffee or something to eat and that you'd like to get to know her better, or something along those lines.

4. Yes, eye contact and body language is a good indicator. If she looks for your entrance, leans in towards you, looks at you (or looks away quickly when your eyes meet...can also mean the same thing) in the eyes, or touches herself when she hears your name, she probably likes you.

Answer 12

what I think you should do is find out more about her from your cousin or whoever you can, and way to go with getting the studying done early, my dad teaches at a college and is always complaining about kids not getting their studying done early enough and he also complains that if someone has a roomate and is in a relationship that the roomate will want to go-try not to drive your roomie out.

Answer 13

There is always a look for us girls to tell that we luv boyz just look deeply in her eyes and u'll kno if it['s real or not. sry for that lil' [ in my sentece i dont wanna fix it.

Answer 14

How cute! I love hearing these stories.

Be careful not to wait too long to ask her out, she may think you just wanna be friends.

She would probably have mentioned it to your cousin if she liked you. (girls tend to do that)

Yes, ask her to eat! Hint to find out what kinds of food she enjoys.

And with the eyes, go with your male instincts. I know I look at guys when I like them ;]]]

Have fun, good luck!

Answer 15

yes i think she obivously is interested in you.  Find the right time to ask her if she would like to go do something together. She can probably come up with some ideas.  Good Luck!

Answer 16

1) i think she does have a crush on you

2) yer girls talk about who they like all the time.. if she and your cousin are close friends they yer maybe she would of mentioned it

3) yer thats a good idea for asking her out. but make sure she has no plans first so you don't get turned down

4) yer when girls look you straight into your eyes and just keep looking then yer she likes you

Go for it your 21 shes 18 go out and have fun in the world.

=]

Answer 17

You are old enough to figure this sort of thing out on your own.

Answer 18

ask her for coffee

Answer 19

Yes, she likes you! Yes she has a crush on you! I do not know if she will say yes if you ask her out get to know her alittle more if you wanna throw it out there ask her for her number or exchange myspaces??? If she hangs out with you cousin she might have but it couldn't hurt to ask ur cousin if she likes you. yes physical contact with looks and facial expressions tell alot about what someone is thinking.  

Answer 20

YES TO ALL OF THE YOUR QUESTIONS!!! :)

WELL GOOD LUCK!!!!