Would you prefer to see someone you're in a relationship with as much as possible and talk to them as much as possible, even to the point perhaps, where you have nothing to say? Or where it becomes like an automatic thing? "Oh I have to talk to him" or "Oh I have to hang out with him, because we ALWAYS do on this particular day of the week" or whatever.
Or, are you one of those people that likes to have time to "miss" that person? Maybe not hanging out every moment you possibly can, or not putting everything on the backburner for that person?
So say you're the latter type of person for example...how much does it turn you off when you're with a person who is the former type? Is it something you can't deal with? Or can you come to a compromise with that person, and reach a common ground where it's not overkill, but at the same time, you don't play "hard-to-get" all the time?
Oh and here's a twist - if you have a problem with the way it is from the start, aren't you supposed to tell the person beFORE it becomes a problem? Like lay down some boundaries from the start, and not wait until it becomes something you have a problem with?
One last subsection: How are you supposed to bounce back from it? Say that person is so annoyed with it, that he/she becomes confused and unsure about the whole situation in general, how do you reconcile and reach a common ground?
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