Guys and girls: Were you self-conscious the first time you did it?

Question

Were you (even a bit) self-conscious (p***s size for guys, body and weight for girls) the first time you took your clothes off in front of your partner to have s*x for the very first time?

If so, how did you overcome it? Did you get any compliments/complaints? If so, what were they?

P.S. What age were you when you first did it?

Answer 1

I was 16 and I turned off all the lights and got under the blankets and tried to not think of anything at all lol I did get complimented I was a skinny 16-year-old

Answer 2

I had anal s*x with my best friend at 14.  He was built like a pony.  We didn't have any problems seeing each other naked because we had seen each other naked (skinny dipping, jacking off, etc.) since we were 8 or so.  We kept at it on a nearly daily basis until I moved away at 18.  My first girl was at 16.  She was my next door neighbor and we had played together since childhood so having s*x was an answer to boredom but we liked it so much we kept amusing each other until she got married.  He was a lucky guy.

Answer 3

im a virgin..but i think when i do it i will be pretty shy..and akward

oh im 17

Answer 4

Totally self conscious, not because of weight or anything, just cause it felt weird. It was a guy and I just did it because i thought that's what all girsls were supposed to do. 17 years old.

Answer 5

Virgin (crosses arms and starts pouting)

Answer 6

Thankfully I've never had any complaints.

But I was VERY self-conscious the first time.  Not about my body or my p***s, but I was afraid I wouldn't be very good.

Turns out it really is like riding a bike.  One you get on, you're fine.

Answer 7

i was 15 and yes, i was self conscious. sometimes i still am and that's 10 years later :)  

Answer 8

Yes! Honestly for like a year I was so insecure about how I looked [my b*****s mostly I was very uncomfortable being completely nude and having someone look at me] It took a while to get over it, but you just need to be comfortable with your body and love yourself. You'd be surprised what a little self esteem could do for your life. Compliments and complaints don't do much, they just effect the ego.

I was 14.

Answer 9

I'm a Virgin still

Answer 10

The first time I did anything with a guy I was soooooooo self-conscious. It had less to do with body issues and more to do with the fact that I was virgin who barely understood how heteros did it much less what two guys did. But he was really sweet and understood that I was shy, and of course I was so into him, that once things started to get going I got less insecure. Eventually I became really comfortable with him because I loved him so much.

This all happened around my 15th birthday.

Answer 11

not with the taking off the clothes part. it was the coming part that made me feel like an idiot. 16.  

Answer 12

Well the first time i had s*x i was 16 and i was drunk, so i don't think i was too self conscious. But the first time i had s*x with a girl we started in the shower and i felt great. Now i've gained some weight and am a little more self conscious than i used to be.

Answer 13

I wasn't self-conscious with my first boyfriend. I hadn't been pelted with so many commercials about male enhancement to know what was considered small. But with the guy I am going for now I am really self-conscious about size. I am always afraid of people thinking I am small.  

Answer 14

ima girl. and i was more nervous. but that really good happy nervous. but that all went away.lol. i decided to make the first move since he had made it clear that he would wait no matter what. so i set a romantic setting and when i saw him for our home date thing lol. it all wen t away. i knew i wanted my first time to be with him. and i have no regrets.i really loved that guy. he was just really really nice, and cool, and just awesome.

i was 15. i was young. and now i wish i would have waited but i dont regret it.

edit: and yeah i got compliments.lol but so did he.