Guys be honest, do your balls ache if u don't get any?

Question

My boyfriend sometimes complains to me that he needs s*x or whatever because his nuts ache and it's a major pain in the *** for him especially during work and stuff...

Is this actually true or is he using it as an excuse for some "relief"?

Answer 1

He just wants some "relief."

They will ache if you tease him all the time and stop before he ejaculates.

Been there and done that.

Answer 2

This can be a problem, but masturbation takes care of it. If your boyfriend is using this argument to pressurise you, tell him the answer is in his own hands - literally! He may indeed need some relief, but you don't need to be involved if you don't want to. If he wants to m********e, then allow him to in any way that is acceptable to both of you.

Answer 3

yes it does...its not a major pain it is just a nagging ache

Answer 4

they do, but it isn't painful and if i'm busy, i don't ever notice

Answer 5

Nope it is just to make you feel bad and give in.

Answer 6

Your boyfriend depending on his character may or may not be using it for an "excuse". But if he is, what is the big problem. It seems as if you have had s*x before and that it is not such an infrequent thing, so if he wants a little more then why not give it to him? Are you afraid his taking advantage of you? Well he is your boyfriend and most stable trust based relationship's have a healthy s*x life.

Does what your boyfriend describing hurt?

Well yes sweetheart it does. For you feminist L*****n men haters, I would like to inform you that no its not just a massive conspiracy to get a little more s*x, it is in fact a medical condition (when reported truthfully) and the pain depending on the severity can measure anywhere between a dull ache that makes you wish you didn't own a pair of testes, to an Immobilizing ache of pure torture that should be relieved quickly with either hand, or partner.

But ultimately if your boyfriends nuts do ache because of the condition readily known as "blue balls" and your feeling particularly frigid... he owns hands I presume? Tell him to use them...

Answer 7

That is a real malady but it doesn't happen very often.  If a guy is teased relentlessly and maintains an erection and receives (or gives himself) constant stimulation without release for over an hour and a half -yes, it can hurt until attain some kind of release. But  the "teasing frustration" has to be pretty intense.  This is the dilemma that that often results in a woman giving her "ok" for him to do "solo" duty  

Answer 8

Don't tell us you fell for that old line...

Answer 9

Yes, blue balls really does exist.

The cause is the prolonged sexual stimulation of the erect p***s (intentional or unintentional), either by direct or indirect contact, that does not result in o****m and ejaculation. This can, in some circumstances, be a consensual sexual act as part of erotic sexual denial.

During arousal in a male, the sympathetic nervous system increases its inputs to the genital tissues, resulting in increased blood flow to the testicles and prostate areas. As this happens, other fluid outflow muscles constrict, causing less bodily fluid to leave the area than enter, ensuring a high enough regional blood pressure to allow a sustained erection for penetration during sexual intercourse.

If o****m is not achieved, blood and lymphatic fluid tend to pool, and the blood becomes oxygen-deprived. The technical term for this is vasocongestion.

Some men may deprive themselves of an o****m purposely, to prolong sexual activity. Their sexual partner may also request that they refrain from ejaculation for a longer period to increase their duration of s*x. If this is the case, massaging the testicles or using a vibrator on the testicles during the prolonged sexual activity may prevent the blood from pooling and actually prevent or decrease the severity of blue balls.

Men with priapism or orchalgia may experience an extreme, prolonged form of blue balls, which may require medical attention.

Answer 10

It is true that if you have not c#m for a while you do get a dull ache in your balls... and a preoccupation with s*x.

But you are right to be a little bit sceptical about it.... it's not like he's in pain... don't let him make you feel too guilty.

Answer 11

Excuse me i just ask u something... "are u persian?"

i noticed ur name lolz

dont matter...anyways, if ur BF is persian (irani) then u should knw that iranian men always have excuses no matter what ...even s*x!! lol

IF HE IS NOT, then he is RIGHT, it's not an excuse......

Answer 12

yes sometimes  when  you dont have s*x for many days you get a feel   of a pain or discomfort in ur pubic region

.I nvr xperienced in my balls though but the location is nearby it .

masturbation can help .but if he really craving you for s*x ,you should take care of ur darling if its not a big prob to u .My gf is always kind and listens to me ..lolz

Answer 13

That is just one of the male tricks to get some.The blue ball syndrome.

A lame excuse.Besides that:he does have hands.

Mine have never hurt:ever

Space.

Answer 14

From my perspective, the answer to your question is Yes & No.

I know that sounds confusing, but let me explain...

My testicles do not ache from a lack of s*x as long as I have not been aroused, but if I had been with some one who aroused me to the point of erection and I became prepared to have s*x and then was denied, my testicles will mildly ache until I found some relief.

So, I can't say if your boyfriend is giving you a "line" or not, I don't know about the details of your relationship and whether you are turning him on and not following through or if he is turning himself on by thinking of you through out the day.

In any event, don't feel you have to have s*x just because he tells you this, if you do not wish to have s*x at any given time, tell him to go into the bathroom and take care of it himself.

Answer 15

oh whatever..just kick him in the nuts and give him something to cry about...im so sick of hearing about *****...did you ever notice that guys are obsessed with their *****????????? its all you ever hear them talk about...they love their ***** more then they love women.

Answer 16

mine don,t, but i do get testy sometimes.

Answer 17

That's the oldest excuse in the book...

I knew a guy who tried that on me too, pfft

Answer 18

Men get hurt if they don't *** for a long time. But having s*x is not the only way. There is something we call 'masturbation' and most men *** when they sleep, nature takes care of that problem.

So yeah, he's using this excuse to get you in his bed. If that would be true, there would be NO male virgins on earth and there are plenty of them.

Answer 19

No  the only time that a dudes nuts hurt is when the dude gets all primed and rialed up by heavy petting and forplay but doesnt have a oragasm or release all the pent up energy he created. if a dude gets all excited and doesnt release then he gets what is called blue balls. if a dude doesnt have s*x for a extended period of time his body will go into auto mode and have a wet dream or nocturnal emmisson the body will oragsm on its own releasing the overflow spooge

cd