Guys go for my best friend..?

Question

Guys always start out liking me and then they'll eventually ask me out, but if i reject them they go for my bestfriend! i don't get it..

Then she always talks about it.. kind of bragging in my face.

Like she'll be like.. he says he really likes me.. and i'd tell her um he said the same thing to me like a week ago.. then sometimes she'll even say i don't think he meant it to you since he's saying it to me now..

it's so annoying..

it's not that i regret rejecting them.. but it kind of makes me jealous when they like my bestfriend... i hate it.

does this happen to any of you? what should i do?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Well I did that once and its cause we are pissed off and trying to get you pissed off.

Answer 3

no fense .. ur friends a *****

I have the same problem with mine but I just laugh at her and take her bragging as compliments lol

just think of this way no matter what she says you know your teh oen the guy secertly wants soo flirt with the guy but dont let him get seroius

Answer 4

me...

tell her ur easier to get since u don't have anything "special" about you

always pisses anyone off

Answer 5

well, u can think of it this way, they couldnt have you, so they are settling for 2nd best. o they are players. try not 2 let it bug u

Answer 6

hey why are you rejesting them??

and if she ses he obiously doesnt mean it if he said it to me

then say to her

well if he said it to you and said it to me then he must say it to every girl he meets cuz girll your but ugly

Answer 7

mybe he is trying to get to u throw her if he really likes that what he would be doing no it didnt happen to me but my friend has done the same thing contine with ur dont stop for any one (unless u like someone then stop for him) let the world stop for u good luck

Answer 8

since they offered to be with you first and you rejected them, you really have no right to complain.  I hope you are jealous - serves yu right!

Answer 9

I will answer this from a guys pov.  I use to go ask out the best friend to p**s off the chick that rejected me, since girls are so petty. Makes life fun.

Answer 10

it happened 2 me! yes, i was kinda jealous but my bf didn't act like yours... ♥kisses♥

Answer 11

Is she worth having as a best friend if she treads all over your feelings?  And why does she seem happy to take all of your leftovers?  Most friends wouldn't go near some guy their friend had been involved with, out of loyalty.  Sounds like she's seriously lacking some of that. If she's worth keeping, talk to her about how it makes you feel ...how her undermining your confidence by rubishing people's feelings for you isn't necessary and you feel like she steps on your territory a lot.  If it were me, I'd be finding someone with their own taste in men and someone who knows the rules of being a good friend!

Answer 12

You reject them, so the go for the next best thing (you're number 1, she's number 2)

but if you say no, and shut up, you didn't want them in the first place