Guys: how would you react to your gf / fiance?

Question

ok so imagine this...

you and your woman are together for a long time, you have a place together, your going to get married etc... and you love each other very much...

one day your sitting at home and you recieve a picture message from her... of kinky things... like she has taken photos of herself to heighten or bring up your s*x life....

how would you react and what would you think?

i mean, shouldnt it be fine? you guys are monogamous, and love each other and have had s*x before - this is basically just to bring some excitement into it?

let me know what you think?

Answer 1

I wouldn't stop thinking of her all day if i was at work & she did this.  Actually I'd be there looking at the clock every minute of the hour thinking, d**n why can't time go faster while I continue to to look at the photos she sent me as the anticipation built up inside of me.  I think it would get to the point of me being unable to concentrate on anything else & if that was the case I'd come up with an excuse to go home halfway naked through the front door...

Answer 2

Im gathering you maybe did this and it din't go down so well.

Personally I think it isn't always appropriate. You just don't know what sort of day a person is having, they might be totally in a space where they don't even want to be thinking about s*x. And that is completely fine, a person's mind doesnt have to be with their partner 24/7. And also, if he is off at work or something, and you send something like that, he is going to be thinking oh ok, what is that is making her so horny, is it because she is around other people or something. I don't know sometimes guys just flip out a little and get insecure just like girls do.