Guys i need your help on this...?

Question

well im just an average girl, not that popular, but not ugly. im one of the top students in our class, and i have a type. i consider myself(and my friends) cute(lol),and some claim to be my bestfriend even if it's not...i think i dont have any problem with my behavior, my only problem is, i dont know anyone in our class seems to like me. all guys in our room are okay with me, i have no enemies in them and they can talk to me comfortably. Theyre just friendly with me,unlike some particular girls out there, some guys avoid them or stuff like that,but i dont know whats he problem with myself. it seems that they have common crushes and they are the popular and pretty girls in our class.

guys,how can you explain this? what am i gonna do?its just okay for me to be conscious,right?

Answer 1

Well, try to get out of "plain" mode. Dress up a little bit, maybe. This shows that you want to be noticed which boys will respond to. Not a S****y way, but just that you are TRYING. Boys in high school are also very insecure and won't come your way if they don't think you like boys. You need to let them know that YOU LIKE BOYS! THEN...they will be showing themselves. Also, the ones you really like, its ok to smile a lot, and look in their eyes longingly, and even ask them if they want to study or maybe do something together sometimes. Don't be too shy. You sound nice and I am sure there are a lot of boys interested, maybe just intimidated by you. First thing, tho, dress up a bit. Get pretty! its one of our societal mating rituals and it works...;o)

Answer 2

your in the friend zone hun. get out, do something. make yourself more noticable. Best of luck!

Answer 3

Yeah everyone is, but don't let it affect who you are!"

Answer 4

As you get a little older the guys will be seeing you differently. (probably college) At this point hormones are what's ruling the boys. They'll seek out the easy girls first. Hang on to your morals. Your time will come.  

Answer 5

try to be more noticeable. Do you giggle, laugh when we are trying to be funny.

Do you have someone in mind? Do you talk to him? if yes to both then you should show some interest. If you don't know who u want then give it some time.