Guys- if a girl said this to you how would you react? important ?

Question

Hello. I just got out of an 8 year relationship because my bf had a change of heart and fell out of love. We've been broken up for a little over a month. At first i was confessing my undying love to him, and it just pushed him further away. He said he wanted 2 remain friends. I sent him an email and said you know what? i've been acting kind of crazy, but i think your exactly right. I kind of saw it coming. This is the best thing for the both of us. I was planning on marrying him. How do you think he feels? how would you feel?? THANKS SOO MUCH!!

Answer 1

He feels the same as he did when he told you,even a little relief now. Since getting that email from you. I think only he would be able to tell you how he feels about this.

Answer 2

I would be relieved that the gal felt the same as I did. You just told him exactly what he wants to hear.

Answer 3

He never really loved you in the first place.  Because if he did he would also confess his undying love to you.  you have to move on.

Answer 4

well im no expert and im not a guy but if you love something let it go and if its trully yours it will come back to you. so i think you should give him time and move on , go out on dates etc. if he sees that you are moving on then maybe it might make a reaction in him. (if it doesnt then you know he doesnt care what you do because that personal level of caring about what the other person does , is gone. )but do the opposite of what you did (emailing etc.) and you might get an opposite reaction out of him(he might come bak instead of movin further away)

Answer 5

I'm a female- but I hope I can help. I can't tell you what he feels- only he can. He's already told you he wants out. Thats all you  need to know. The details help- but not really. IF he wants to go - let 'em go. You cant hold a man to you, you cant make him stay. He is going to do what he wants to you. Period. SO- what do you do? Let 'em go. Don't try to make him feel a certain way, dont try to say certain words so it bothers him or affects him.. just let it go. Hold your head up high.. and know you still have your self respect.