Guys... if he was REALLY interested wouldn't he?

Question

Guys... if he was REALLY interested wouldn't he?

want to see more me often than just once a week or once every month??? from a guys perspective?

i have a friend and he said he wants more but yet when i ask him if he's available to meet he'll come up with an excuse. what do u think. if a man is really interested in a woman he'll go out of his way to see her??

Answer 1

Just speak to him and tell him i dont like the way you're acting.

if youre not interested just tell me.

Good luck

Answer 2

Seems as if he is only interested on his own terms , and a relationship needs compromise to work

I would say that he may have someone else and either is stringing you along or perhaps doesn't know how to tell you  

Answer 3

Maybe he has other stuff going on. Or, you know, maybe he lied about wanting something more and he just doesn't like you.

Answer 4

i'd certainly think he'd want to spend much more time with you.  if you were my gf, i'd spend a lot of time with you

Answer 5

u can do better

Answer 6

There's a man I really like and I would want to see him all the time, but I'm busy with work and studies so I like to spend quality time with him. I would rather go out somewhere nice once or twice a week than live in each other's pockets. He took me to the West end of London the other day.

If all he does is sleep with you, then yes he's just after one thing, but if he wants to do other things then he likes you, but you might be scaring him off by wanting to be serious so quick. Maybe you need to find other interests than just boyfriends and then you will be more interesting for him.

Answer 7

hes g*y  

Answer 8

Well, I think you can do better than him, love.

Answer 9

hes not interested or taking you for granted forget it,  

Answer 10

STOP ASKING THE SAME QUESTION!!!! HE IS USING YOU AND YOU ARE LETTING HIM!!!!

Answer 11

he had his balls removed from testicular cancer

Answer 12

Dump him.

Now call me: 555-5555. haha jk

Answer 13

Yes, if was really that interested he'd want to spend more time with you..but life isn't black and white like that, maybe there are other factors in his life that are preventing him from spending more time with you right now? Why don't you ask him hoe he feels?

Answer 14

He's not interested.  If you have s*x with him, THAT'S what he's interested in.  He probably has at least 1 other woman on the go.  Get rid, and find someone worthy

Answer 15

Just offer to become his receiver. If he isn't g*y, he'll be happy to meet you.

Answer 16

I think that maybe he is insecure with himself and maybe doesnt think you feel the same way...maybe you guys should talk about it

hope that helps

Answer 17

If he was really interested he would want to spend a lot of time with the girl.