Guys: if you like a girl...?

Question

at what point do you try to sleep with her....and if she does sleep with you do you continue to like her

Answer 1

as soon as they see she has nice big ****, thats when they want to sleep with her. and yes they continue to like her as long as she doesnt have children or a loose kitty

Answer 2

dnt knw if all guys are like this but i like a challenge....

Answer 3

I'm an older guy so the thinking about this goes over a lot of years, marriages, live-ins, dates, one-night stands, casual to serious.  Sleeping with her early or later seems to make no difference to me in regard to how much she might (as far as I can tell) be loved, respected, esteemed.  Each of us has a history that effects who we are and how be behave and what we believe.  

Maybe there are some girls/women who are s---s (don't use the word), but I never met one.  Each knows herself and behaves according to the chemistry of the moment and how the fellow is as a person to respect or be fearful of .

Thus, I am saying there is a lot more to this matter of "sleeping" than how soon.  Relax.  Don't count the dates, or the meetings...it is a matter of patience and respect.    Cheers.  

Answer 4

It highly depends. Depend on the girl also.

I heard of stories of people who have even married prostitutes and had Happy family life's.

Answer 5

ASK

HER!!

YOUR

SELF!!

Answer 6

Most of the guys like the part of "continued sleeping with her again"

Answer 7

i have pretty serious intimacy issues so generally when we start having s*x and she realizes there isn't anything deeper to me the relationship kind of crumbles. so, now, i don't wait very long before we do the deed, no point in getting them to like me too much. sigh.

Answer 8

yup it makes me in love ! its true! i keep coming back for more  

Answer 9

i would continue to like her definately! at the point we are both ok with each other and not lonely or anything and happy not to mention sleepy

Answer 10

wait for a couple weeks, actually get to know the guy before you s***w em. if you like em s*x will come later then its not such a big issue

Answer 11

I don't "try to" sleep with her.  It will come up in conversation as a mutual understanding of when we are comfortable to try it.  If we are seriously 'dating' but cannot talk about it within the first few weeks, It's not going to happen.

She has to be comfortable talking about it, first.

T

Answer 12

Depends on the girl and her readiness/willingness/desire, and our chemistry...but I don't "try" to sleep with her then; we end up deciding together that it's the right time for it.  And yes, I continue to like her afterwards...very likely moreso.

I'm not looking for, nor do I need, any trophies...ya know?

Answer 13

I usually let her decide when, id rather have a relationship than a roll in the hay.

Answer 14

when I know her well enough. I don't like S****y chicks so not very soon.