Guys is this a turn off during s*x?

Question

when a girl says shes scared since its her first time or says

it hurts?

Answer 1

Are you talking about up the bum.

Answer 2

Count your blessings because this experience you speak of will happen maybe once or twice in your lifetime. You've just found a virgin. Take it reeeeaal slow and use astroglide.

Answer 3

Neither a turn on or off. Just information the male needs to know in order to minimize the discomfort the female is feeling. If a guy believes it to be a turn on that he's hurting a girl, I'd have to question the Male's real feelings towards the female.

Answer 4

no i find it hot

Answer 5

It shouldnt be a turn on or a turn off, they should respect the fact that it's your first time and your inexperienced.  If it starts to hurt and you ask him to stop, he should right away.. if he doesn't want to, or just plain doesnt, he isn't the right person to be havign s*x with. He should respect you.