Guys n girls i need ur help with this?

Question

so in middle school i dated my x bf for a day n broke up, then we got back together for about two weeks...i wasn't ready for no relationship so the whole thing was awkward. it been about three years since i seen him, but last friday he came up to me at the mall..i was soo surprise n shy that i didn't know wat to say,,plus my mom was right there...i forgot about him since i left middle school but lately thats wat i found myself doing when i think about relationships...i really want to start talking to him again as friends, because he was a cool person back then but i dnt want to think that i want to get back together..i tried looking for him on my space n facebook but i cnt find him..i dnt wanna ask my old friend either(they both go to the same school, i just just got her cell number so we haven't talk since middleschooll either) because i dnt want her to think that i want to get with him either....how do i get in contact with him again or how cn i ask my friend about him with out sending the wrong signs

Answer 1

Call your old friend and start talking about old times and what's new. Mention that your ex came up to you at the mall and tell her how surprised you were. Then see what she says. Don't ask a lot of questions about him, just make light conversation about him. See where it goes from there. You can't stop her from thinking what she wants, but you can act cool.