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Guys please help i need a guys opinion girls tooo ?

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So my boyfriend and i have been on and off.. Let me explain. We dated for five months then he told me he was scared and broke up with me.. That he didnt know hwo to react to what he felt and that his emotions were vulnerable to wht i said and he didnt like that.. So we broke up for 3 months. In May he got into a car accident broke his back, neck, jaws, arms. anyway i hadnt talked to him since we had broken up it was a bad breakup. i loved him dearly but they say if you love something let it go right. Anyway when he got into his wreck i ran to his bedside. and was there till he got out of the icu. We then decided to get back together, he shortly after moved into my parents house. We have been dating and living together since. We have had our ups and downs. Well he wanted to go do drugs and i told him no because he had given me his word that he would do it and i said that if he did it would be over. Then i said just get out its over. He packed his bags and as we were talking we were about to make up and his mom came.. b/c my dad called his mom bc he put his hand s on me.. I went to his house like a hour later he started to take his things out o fmy car and i asked him if he would at least talk to me he said nope im done. He said we need to take a break for at least a week, i said well does that mean you are going to go look for someone else and sleep with outher people he said nope. So i didnt talk to him at all he came over on Thursday and got some more of his things but didnt take his computer or the rest of his clothes.. I asked him i said so are we over he said i havent decided.. Then when he was leaving i said well when will i konw because you cant just leave me hanging he said watch me im a grown *** man, i can do whatever i want. then today he told someone we were over... but he hasnt told me this, what do i do to get him back. i am madly in love with him and i dont want to lose him again. pleasee any advice i havent talked to him since he came over and i havent tried too.

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  1. he hit you, leave him,

    he's using you (and will leave you in a minute),  leave him

    what is he doing for you? leave him now!

      


  2. Get over him.  If you can't stay together while you are dating, how in the world do you think you are going to stay together when you are married?

    Move on.  In time, you will find someone else you love.

  3. Been around eachother 24/7 is gonna cause a few eruptions. Either get over him and find someone oulse or just go with the flow and give him a ring saying do you want to meet up and then take things slowely with him and give him space.


  4. Leave him alone. Your heart will heal. You guys are in two different places in your lives. If he hit you once he will do it again. Get yourself together and move on. You are not his case worker and he clearly doesn't want any help. Get some friends, get a life. Move on. It will hurt like h**l, but if you don't, not only will your life go nowhere fast, you'll also be enabling his in the same way.  

  5. Move on to someone else. If he doesn't treat you the way you want to be treated and is willing to leave you hanging, then that means he doesn't love you. There is no point in continuing if there's nothing there. I know... you are seeking advice on how to get him back but honestly just give yourself time. You love him now but if you give yourself time, you will realized that your better off without him.  

  6. You may think you love him, but as soon as you get a guy that treats you right you will realize that he is a loser and that you never knew what you saw in him... my advise DUMP HIM!

  7. Okay,

    You need to move on.

    It sounds like he's not a very good boyfriend.

    And like he doesn't care about you that much.

    Don't get back with him even if he comes crawling back.

    Just move on and start dating other people.

    I hope I helped.

  8. Well it seems like you really love this guy, but this is a situation that is greatly disturbing your life.  If you're absolutely sure this is the only guy you'll ever want to be with, do what you can to make it work.  Eventually he'll recover and be able to work again and you can get back to "normalcy" or whatever that entails.  

    If you think you want to test the dating waters, however, (and how one goes about doing that effectively I am not quite sure) this is a good situation to be breaking up with the guy, but staying friends, or something.

  9. i cant read that much.

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