Guys: question for 20s - 30s?

Question

obviously people in their late 20s and 30s view s*x a little differently than college kids and younger.

if a girl sleeps with you pretty quickly, do you consider her a s**t?

Answer 1

I think there is a lot more to it than how soon she sleeps with you--- You can pick up on a lot of things (especially us 30's guys) about a person's personality and issues that qualify it.  For instance, if she has low self esteem or dependency issues and sleeps with you quickly, vs. if you and she are both confident, self-assured people who both felt 'connected' and had a lot in common... I'd worry more about the 'issues' scenarios than if she's a s**t...

Answer 2

not at all theres nothing wrong with that

Answer 3

No.  Unless she slept with my friends first.  

When it's right it's right.  Guys are understanding for a week or two of dating, we feel taken advantage of if it takes much longer than that especially if we've been paying for stuff.  On the other hand the stronger emotionally the guy is the less time he'll wait, unless it's escalating date by date. Some guys will hang on for years for you to realize how cool he is without any escalation.  

Answer 4

yeah pretty much if she goes to bed so quick i'll prolly just use her for a while then leave her woundt wanna stick with a girl like that for very long  

Answer 5

No more a s**t than I am!!!

Answer 6

Not neccesarily, it depends what she does after that

Answer 7

Personally no.  That does not fullfill my definition of a s**t.  If she did that casually with lots of guys, maybe.  However, I had a long term loving relationship with a girl who slept with me quickly.  There was nothing S****y about it.

Answer 8

I will say this.  If she's willing to give herself away that quickly, then I can't help but wonder how many other guys has she been quick to sleep with.    

Answer 9

normally no and it beats the h**l out of waiting around to finally get round to it! lol

if it's a one night stand i understand it is as that. It's only the once where i wanted more out of it that my mind started thinking like that...

Answer 10

well i did that once, he didn't think i was a s**t because i didn't really do anything to overstep my boundaries. just as long as you don't over do it and he doesn't mind i think it's kinda ok but it really depends on the person.