Guys...shy or outgoing girls?

Question

im just wondering. its not like this huge deal to me or anything but i read another question like this and i was wondering the same thing. cause i have this one friend and shes sooo loud and always wants the attention. and shes a great friend..but im just not like that. i'll like talk to people and stuff. but im not like obnoxious like her. she's like "the cheerleader" with big b***s. (haha) and shes always around the boys. its just annoying to everyone. {kinda was venting there for a moment" lol

Answer 1

Outgoing gets the most guys and the most attention. No question.

But, the one that finds you wins the contest. Some of us like the girls that don't demand attention all of the time.

Answer 2

i totally know what you mean!! but i've realized that the guys usually just talk to her because shell talk to them you know? they also might use her to get to you, it happens a lot! OR they might like her because she gives them attention but then realizes that they'd rather have you instead[ that's where i say, umm excuse me?] lol :P or or last one, they might give her attention, but only because they think shell put out ( believe me, this happens A LOT!!) but you'll never really know for sure until the end. plus it depends a lot on the guy but i would think that a guy wouldn't want their girlfriend to be flirting up all the guys right?but who knows lol GOOD LUCK :)

Answer 3

what's the question?

Answer 4

Outgoing girls seem to flirt more and I get a little jealous to see my girl hitting it up with another guy. Shy girls are afraid to do "new" stuff so they can get boring.

So I'll take a outgoing girl if she isn't a huge flirt or other wise I'll take a girl who is shy.

Answer 5

I could tell you were venting, but personally I don't like those kinds of girls who try to be "the hot one of the pair" and push the other one down to steal attention. Some like it just because they feel they will stand a better chance with her when it comes to a sexuality, but they certainly won't respect her.

If she is outgoing and nice, then ya that's great, but it she is outgoing and attention grabbing that no.

Answer 6

personally I like shy girls.  Loud girls who talk like a stereotype and say like every 4 words are really annoying.