Guys what do this mean and girls what would you do?

Question

Guys what do it mean if you had an on and off relationship and was absive to the female. And now you say you want to work things out, but then you say idk what I want and that I want to see what its like to date other people?

And ladies how would you handle this type of situation?

Answer 1

Sorry your question is a bit confusing, but I think you are asking about breaking off an abusive start and stop relationship with someone.  My personal feelings are that any time 1 person is abusive in a relationship the very first time --- IT"S OVER.  Most females think that the abuse is only towards them - an abusive man will abuse every females he deals with unless he gets intensive therapy.  Not only should you (or whoever) date other people, who should walk away from this relationship and close the door -- forever and do not make an announcement just do it!  

Answer 2

if he said he wanted to see what it was like to date other people then i would get the impression that he wasnt satisfied with me. i would agree with himand tell him.... yea i think we should see other people for good....

Answer 3

I would wipe this person from my memory and never allow this person to contact me again.

First, you never want to return to an abusive person, no matter what reason they give you.

Second, this person has already changed his fickle mind and is moving on without you.

Answer 4

i wouldnt be able to call myself a man if i hit a woman