Guys who have/dealt with performance anxiety...

Question

how did you get over it? it seems to happen to me. Not all the time, but more than I would like, even though there is really nothing to be anxious about because my girlfriend is really understanding and supportive

Answer 1

The fact that your gf is being supportive is probably the most important thing.  Just take your time and ask her what pleases her.  You'll know when you succeed and this will help your confidence.  Almost all of us are nervous when we're starting out.  This will pass as you become more experienced.

Answer 2

I have the same problem. So I usually work on her first, then seeing her 'happy" makes me "happy" and the anxiety seems to go away.

Answer 3

take a deeap breath, and do it... pretend Superman will kill ur gf if u dont do it and u will do it... or pretend spiderman will kill someone u hate if u do it.., depending on weather love or hate is stronger in ur life.