Guys-would you approach a girl even if she gave no signals of interest?

Question

this is all so confusing to me. whenever i notice a cute guy looking at me or staring at me i pretend i don't notice. i am just so shy around guys and when i see them looking at me that i don't know what to do. if a girl ignored your staring would you approach her still? or just forget about it? i think this is my problem-that i don't look back at them much. do u think if i looked back at them and smiled they would be more likely to approach me? what am i supposed to do when guys that i find attractive are staring at me? whether they go to my school or just some random guy i see.

Answer 1

be you. if a guy is truly interested then they will approach you whether you are shy or ignore them or not.  

Answer 2

if they are looking at u they wondering about u so yeah i would aproach a girl specialy if she is cute dats how u get friends and also dats howw u get girls

Answer 3

Ofcourse I would...its a guys job to approach a girl regardless if she gives a signal. Its a guys job to be confident and understand how to handle the situation. If a girl responds positivly when he approaches her then good but if she doesn't...he needs to be a gentleman and excuse himself.  

Answer 4

It depends on the guy. I would approach a girl/woman whether she showed interest or not. If I don't try I'll never know if it could have been. Many guys will just assume that if they stare at you and you don't look back at them that you're either not interested, or actively dislike them. This can be fixed by a simple little lift at the corners of your mouth. It's called a smile and as the Hawaiians say "Smile...You no gon broke you face". You would be amazed at the reaction a smile can get. You don't have to be confident, and you can be shy. All your shyness will be circumvented by someone you are interested in if you just lift those two little corners of your mouth when you see him looking at you. Good luck.

Answer 5

I look at a attractive woman in the bar and if she ignores me, I think I must not be her type,  I end up going home with a less attractive woman,  cause she seems  more available, than the more attractive woman.  then that woman asks "why me?  you could have had any gal you want"  and that makes me wonder if I could have had a shot at the prettier one.  but then she acted like she wasn't available.

Answer 6

I know I'm a girl it's just I'm shy around guys too. If it's a guy you don't know then they'll have no idea that you are shy and will probably just think that you aren't interested. Unless you blush i suppose. But it's hard enough for guys to approach girls as they have feelings too and a fear of rejection. So if you don't look interested they're are very unlikely to want to approach you. You need to try and smile at them even if its ashy smile or just small/ Or you could give them a quick second glance. Anything to make them understand. If they go to your school then chances are you should be more comfortable around them and they should understand that you're shy. Play with your hair flirtatiously, glance at them briefly. Hold eye contact for a few seconds then turn away again. Being shy can seem mysterious. Guys often like that. But make sure you have confidence as that's the most important thing. Good Luck x hope I helped

Answer 7

i do the same thing but they approach me.so i guess the answer to your question is yes.sorry im not a guy tho.

Answer 8

you think to much

Your the kind of chick i hate.

Answer 9

you should look back and smile :)

^_^

Answer 10

See how all these answers are conflicting? lol Well the answer to your question is: It depends on the guy. Some guys just like to watch. They will watch anything in a skirt. Some are already taken but it doesn't stop them from looking...nothing wrong if you look right? Some are very shy...and would look away (not boldfaced staring) if you catch them. Others might approach you...because they are attracted to you or just for the h**l of it.

Be yourself..the right guy would approach you.

Answer 11

only to joke around. to get a good laugh.

Answer 12

Back in the day when i was 15-19 I probably wouldn't.

Now I'm more self confident, so I could do it either way.

You, however, need to realize that if they're staring - they probably like you. So YES! smile to them, and they will come up. Try to overcome your shyness. Work on talking to people every day. Start a small-talk kind of conversations with strangers. That should help you loosen up.

Good luck.

Answer 13

I wouldn't usually approach a girl who doesn't appear interested in me. Granted, that's not always the case. It would really depend on how interested I was in her! But, for the most part, if a girl shows no interest in me, if she doesn't return a look or makes a point of turning away, then I think it would be rather rude to go up to her and try to hit on her. Some guys will approach any girl, regardless of any apparent return of interest on her part.

Also, guys aren't as dull and numb to the world around them as most girls think we are. Guys can actually pick up on your emotions. If you are shy and refuse to return a look or a glance, most guys will stay away. There will be some little feeling in the back of their heads that warns them away. So if you see a guy you want to talk to you'll need to be a little bolder. I'm not telling you to go tackle the guy in the library. Just give him a nod. He'll do the rest.

Answer 14

I don't try to approach girls no matter they notice me or not. But once I tried to approach a girl who was not noticing me because I fell in love with her.