We were friends fro 2 years before we got together. Our relationship lasted 3 years and then out of the blue he broke my heart horrible, but even tho he hurt me so much i just cant hate him. A couple of months back we talked again and he said that he still cares about me that he wants to be my friend and i said i didn't have a problem with it. I know he is dating different girls and everything and even tho at the beginning it hurt me to know that, now I'm more relax about it. The problem is that it seems he just calls me when he has nothing else to do or he has any problem and he calls me for advice. He says that i can also count on him but i just try not to call him cause it hurts me when i talked to him and he is so indifferent. yesterday i asked him why he hasn't called for 2 weeks to at least say hi and he said that he has been busy with his friends, which i didn't like cause i thought i was his "friend" too. Then today he text me cause he has some problems and he is asking what i think he should do so I realized that he just calls me when his life is not going good and he needs help. I honestly don't know what to do . should i just not help him and tell him to go and ask his others friends or should i still be there for him.
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