HE gets ON MY NERVES?

Question

i was about to go out with my ex he wanted to go back out with me back in january but i said its not a good time we should go back out in the summer so its about july and i was ready t go out with him but i guess he goes out with this girl at my school i dont like her. I think hes trying to make me jealous and trying to make me wait just like i made him because he always brings up i think your jealous and you had me waiting all that type of stuff bringing up the past. What should i do? i like him alot we are going to the fair on thursday

Answer 1

get rid of him. if he likes you he shouldn't be playing games with you. so get rid of him.

Answer 2

do you like Losers??

If he can't wait for you, why would you wait for him? You're going to end up getting hurt...

Find someone else, but you're probably young still so you dont think about going serious with a guy. Just want to have a guy.

Answer 3

Simple answer.

If he is good enough for you to want to go out with then you should never make him wait like that.

(FOR SIX WHOLE MONTHS)

You can be happy he still remembers your name.

Time is a very precious thing. You shouldn't blame him for not liking that. During the waiting, he quickly realized that he is good enough for another girl just as good as you who won't put him on hold.

Tell him that you are sorry for making him wait because it obviously gets on HIS NERVES and he just just letting you know how it feels.

Answer 4

if you really like him you could/can wait right? Plus it should be good to talk about the past so you might be able to work out some problems you might have as well.But it isn't right for him to try to make you jelous by going out with another girl.

Answer 5

just blow him off.

tell him to go **** himself

Answer 6

Try getting another guy, and make him jeolus

Answer 7

Don't even pursue it. You may like him now but there had to be a good reason why it wasn't a good time back in January.

If he wants to play games (the "t*t for tat" lesson) then don't play with him. He obvisouly doesn't repsect your decision to wait. Let him keep on and you keep moving. He might like this other girl or he might be just using her to get back at you but it really doesn't matter.

Go to the fair with him but just as friends. You have to learn how not to be flirtatious with him and except that there's no going back. I think that you're not jealous, just hurt because he took what you wanted to do out of context. Live your life and don't worry about him. He's not thinking about you. Y'all broke up for a reason...remember it...and add to the list that he likes to play games. Remember he asked you back out and you said no...no the other way around. Like him or not...Wait for no man!

Answer 8

Oh no he didn't!

Answer 9

My god, what is the reason to even bring up the past..January until now, if you are now going to the fair with him? You seem to be living your life with one foot stuck in the grave (past).

So here's what to do. Go to the fair with him and either move forward with the relationship or not. Simple. Stand up for yourself!

Answer 10

be who you want to be barbie girl

Answer 11

when u go to the fair, make him remember how much he liked you. its stupid that hes trying to make you jealous so if at the fair he doesnt start to like you back, make him jealous. oh and if he brings up the past, quickly change the subject or pretend like you didn't hear him

hope this helps  :D

Answer 12

not to be rude, but why was it okay for you to put him on hold and ****, then when he gets fed up and moves on, hes a jackass? women need to realize that men even though they dont show it are hurt alot more than women are in these types of situations.

My Opinion ( Based on Personal Experiences ):

seriously, stop double standarding **** like that because not only is it not fair but its also completely assholish, I had a ***** like that and hate her guts completely, she was self centered and thought that she could do anything, and when I did one wrong thing she'd act like i just comitted a federal crime.

My Opinion ( Based on how I care about everyone on Earth ):

If you really like him, then i guess try to re-gain his trust and attraction towards you, but if he already has a woman then dont even bark up that tree. Just tell him youre really sorry about doin that to him, he didnt deserve to be treated in that way. It doesnt make you a weak-willed woman and a pushover / non dependant... get the whole feminist thing out of your head because youre stronger to admit your wrongs than to cover them up with you being right ( dont think im judging you because im not ). Just have a good time, dont bring up anything touchy, if and when he does just calmly explain your feelings about it, and if he freaks then just take it in and realize youre better than his ****, if he understands, continue to have a good time and hopefully he'll realize what a wonderful woman you are.

hope it helped.

Answer 13

just say what you need to say :P

Answer 14

not worth the hassel my lovely, harsh but the truth

find a really nice guy to be with instead or else youl only be unhappy if you get back with him

dont go back

honest onwards and upwards! only way to be happy, dont look back huni.

Answer 15

Maybe you guys can make out on the ferris wheel and get back together.  (lol) Just don't be the other woman.  He has to choose.

Answer 16

tell him since u made him wait you'll wait for him..but nobody said you couldn't date anyone else while ur waitng ;]

xxoxoo

Cammzz

Answer 17

so go to the fair with him thats what i would do.

Answer 18

tell him. in a unobvious way make him choose.  (i.e- I don't feel comfortable around people who cheat and lie.)  you may want to take a step back if he still is trying to make you jelous.  If everything fails, move on.  He'll be sorry that he lost you.

Hope it helps

Answer 19

what do you expect? no BOY is going to sit around and wait for you.... find someone else.

Answer 20

You should figure out what it is you want from him. Do you want friendship? A relationship? It's not as cut and dry as choosing between the two, but you need to realize in your mind how you see this guy and how you want to associate yourself with him. From what you describe, he doesn't seem like anyone you yourself could have long term relationship with, you'd probably fall in and out with him quiet a bit. I don't know if that is something you actually want to go through, but it makes more sense just to see what else is out there. He's not the only guy that is out there. There are plenty more where he came from, and you and him need to understand that.

I realize that it is not as simple as this, but you can't let him make you jealous because he's "going out" with this other girl. If you let him do that to you, then you're putting him in a position of power over you. And that is not a good idea at all, because then he can control you. You gotta find out what it is you really want, not just what you think you might want, and go from there. But from an unbiased perspective, it doesn't seem like this guy is right for you. You probabaly would be better off with a guy who doesn't play these "boy games". You'd have a better experience with a guy who knows who he is and is confident about that, someone who has more experience than this fool, and can respect you. Which you won't find at your age, which seems to be 13 or 14; so in other words, you'd be better off single until you actually know what you want from a real boyfriend, not just some fool who you stick a "boyfriend" label on.

Answer 21

omg i had this same experience once and what i did was went on with my life and kept living and if he really wants to be with you he would put her to the side and realize that he had a good girl all along because now of days its hard to find good girls and guys.if he dont realize the best thing is to let him go now dont get me wrong it may be the hardest thing for you to do but one day it may be one of the smartest things you did.NO ONE SAID IT WAS GOING TO BE EASY!!GOODLUCK !!LET ME KNOW WHAT HAPPENS IF YOU DONT MIND

Answer 22

simple, if he keeps trying to make you jealous act like you DON'T CARE! It may work if you try to make him jealous yourself, act like you're really into a guy or just talk to him about it. If he keeps bringing up the past tell him to let it go. What happened in the past stays in the past, there's nothing you van do to change it. You're in the present right now and you CAN control what becomes of your relationship with him. If you can't stand him though and if he keeps holding on, forget about him, as hard as it may be... trust me, i've been down that path..... it really does hurt when your heart gets broken...

                                   ~ aiden ~

Answer 23

Dump him.

Answer 24

sleep with him and get it out of your system.

seems like theres no other reasonable thing to do!

Answer 25

He's so not worth it, don't waste your time on someone like that! But, if he likes you and you like him, you could give it another try. (=

Answer 26

Wait it out, dont narrow your choices down to just him and spend as much time as you can with your guy friends who make you feel good about yourself =)

You're better than that and if hes gonna be an a$$ than hes not worth it. He probably still has feelings for you anyway. Whats meant to work out will in the end. no worries and no waiting around there girlie...

Answer 27

He tried to go out with you and you said the time wasn't right. Why do you think he should waite until you snap your fingers and come running back. He has moved on. Leave him alone.

Answer 28

Gn=o on the roller coaster and threaten to push him off if he don't go out with you. :)