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Question

Hi, my bf is really pissed off now cuz he wants to have s*x and wont get off my moms bed. I have small bed and he says he needs room. He said if we f*** in the shower i wont get pregnant so no need to use a condom. Is that true, why else would he say that? He said if its good we will finish in the bed. He was just fingering me to get me ready. Im really young and havent had a period yet(im 13) but now im really really really horny and actually "need" to have s*x. He wants to start now but i want to know, will it hurt??? How do i make it more pleasureable and less painful? Should we start with oral? I dont know it hes a virgin though. PLZ answer everything, not just one. Thanx!!!

Any rude comments will be reported and im soooo serious, plz dont say im too young cuz im not.

Answer 1

Wow... you better use a condom or you can still get pregnant. God.. haven't you seen teen moms? Their lives are ruined. If you boyfriend loves you he will wait. And why are you in your parents room..?

Answer 2

No, water does not prevent it at all.

Basically, use some form of birth control, or get pregnant at the age of 13.

Also, Please realize your boyfriend just lied to you about something that important.  

Answer 3

hmm , CAN you get prego without having your period  ? imma have to google that .

Answer 4

13 is to young to be having s*x.

1 Psychologically you are too young even oral.

2 You should never have s*x if you are being pressured to do so. You  should only have s*x under your own terms.

3 You can get STD the first time you have s*x.

4 You can get pregnant the first time you have s*x. I have a cousin that had her deformed son at 13 and her daughter at 15. She doesn't have a very good life.

5 You should always use a condom and some other form of birth control.

6 Yes, s*x can hurt the first time. especially for someone who is still growing.

Your boy friend is a F***** A** H***. You need to dump him and find someone who is worth your time.

Answer 5

you can get pregnant no matter what, even if you are in the shower, or on top or any other obnoxios position that he suggests. always wear a condom no matter what. i am not going to tell you that you are too young because its your choice not mine, just make sure it is the right one. yes it might hurt as it mostly does with every other girl. please make him wear a condom. it is your body not his and if he wont have s*x without one then tell him no, dont give in, im serious. i just had a best friend have a one night stand with a guy and she ended up pregnant. shes 20 and i would have hoped that she would have made better choices so dont make a dumb mistake because your ignorant boyfriend thinks hes right.

Answer 6

First of all you're too young to be having s*x, and yes please use a condom there are so many diseases out there.How do u know that you need to have s*x just because of a feeling, you should wait until you find someone that loves you and that you love so think about the consequences of having s*x.

Answer 7

okay, u can get pregnant in the shower and hes a LOSER if he said u cant because he obviously doesnt care about you. sorry to be harsh. WAIT to have s*x a little longer please. u dont want to be pregnant!!!!!! and maybe ruin your life.

and doing it on your moms bed is just gross.

kick him out. now.

you will regret it if u have s*x.

please dont

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Answer 8

Number 1 you always need to use a condom no matter where your having s*x. Even if you havent started you can still get other things. I am 13 too and your not physically or mentally ready. It may feel good but is it worth it. If ur horny m********e. But if you must, here's my advice: to reduce the pain start slow and tell him what feels good you need to tell him these things and if he doesn't care he's not worth it.

Answer 9

Yes, you can get pregnant in the shower. You said you dont know if he's a virgin...so YES use  a condom not just to prevent pregnancy, but for STD's. You can get pregnant before you start getting periods. I hate to break it to you, but yeah, the first few times are very uncomfortable. I was almost 20 when I got married and my honeymoon night was both our first times and it hurts the first time evenas a grown woman, and at 13 you arent completely through growing up and your body just isnt ready yet. As for oral s*x, i dont think you should be thinking about any of this at 13, but if you are going to do it...just make him get tested for STD's...hey you never know! Just be really careful and if he cares about you, he will GET OFF YOUR MOM'S BED (very direspectful btw), get tested and show you the test results. Be smart about it. Dont do something you may pay for later! Waiting is worth it. Be sure he REALLY gives a dang! Good luck!

Answer 10

hey! if you get pregnant at any age below 18, you WILL EXPLODE!!!!!! FDKVKSJIRHTJNBZDEJSFIGSR...........don't do it

Answer 11

   A funny thing, it is always the smart guys that say you can't get pregnant that don't care if you do.  If you don't make him use a condom who will get pregnant?  Not him!  All he cares about is feeling good and getting off.  Yes it will hurt the first time.  No, he is not a virgin.  Virgins are not that driven to have s*x with a 13 year old.  I have seen several 14 year old mothers on this site, did you want to join them?  Make him use a condom!

Answer 12

uhhh. whoa.

let's see. i guess i'm going to picture you much older in my head then.. well. 13.

Even if you haven't had a period you still wanna be cautious.

Make sure he's wearing a condom cause if he's not your either

A. Gunna get pregnant

B. Gunna get an STD

or

C. your gunna get super as h**l lucky and not get anything.

But I wouldn't take C as a chance.

Anyway, Just go with whatever your body tells you if you wanna start with a little playing and such then go right ahead.

If not then I guess, just.. have s*x with him?

And, It won't hurt at all.

Some of the more sensitive people hurt the first couple of seconds but it gets more pleasurable towards the end. ;D

Answer 13

You can get pregnant no matter what! You might be old enough to have s*x but you might not be old enough to have a baby, or emotionally ready to go through with this. Use a condom!  It does hurt if not done properly.  This is that moment where you are about to throw it all out the window for the acceptance of a boy that will not be here for you a year from now.  If you can wait, if he really loves you he will wait.  Try other things instead. You can get each other off with out going all the way.  I hope it all works out for you.  

Answer 14

WTF?!! Hello??ur 13! u shldnt b having s*x that young,PLEASE wait until ur married.no thts not true,u can get pregnant no matter where u hav s*x.if u and ur bf r ignorant enough 2 believe c**p lyk tht,u definitely shldnt even b thinking about doing it.do u honestly want 2 get a nasty STD?or get pregnant?then when you rly r in love and actually want to hav s*x when ur married,u won't b able 2 cuz they won't want 2 catch nething from u.u dnt NEED 2 hav s*x.keep ur clothes on and tell ur bf 2 beat it.WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE!thats wat God would want.

Answer 15

YOU DO NOT DARE HAVE s*x AT 13. YOU WANNA GET AN STD? PREGNANT? AND HOW WOULD YOU TELL YOUR MOM? YOU WANNA BE CALLED A s**t? w***e? I'M NOT SAYING WAIT TIL YOU'RE MARRIED, DON'T BOTHER, BUT JESUS CHRIST YOU'RE 13.

Answer 16

Who cares if you report us.

What's that really gonna do.

Anyway yes you are too young.

Especially if you haven't even had your period yet.

That's why so many teens are pregnant now.

No common sense.

You go right ahead and be another teen statistic.

Sad.

Answer 17

well if you think that he is a virgin, he cant be an expert on the subject, there fore how does he know that you cant get pregnant in the shower? course you can; personally i would say you are far to young. hes also pushing you a bit much 'gettin pissed off' dont be forced into it either. but whatever you chose use protection.  

Answer 18

Dont be pressured into s*x when your 13, youre too young. The average female doesnt have s*x till there 16. And it would be painfull at first, so I woudnt. Ive never had s*x, and dont plan to for a few more years(im 14). Tell your bf, that your not ready, if he doesnt understand why tell him to get lost. Im Sure you deserve better than that, no offence to your bf... but thats the crappyest thing ive ever heard. Use a Condom no matter when you have s*x, theres still ways for you to get pregnant!

Hope everything works out okay :D

Answer 19

Please just say no. 13 is not the age to lose your virginity. And you can get pregnant in the shower lmao. If you do, PLEASE use protection!

Answer 20

actually you are WAY to young. wait another 2 years at LEAST.

Answer 21

Hi,

  Well, too bad your bf is pissed off. . .what about YOUR feelings? No one "needs" to have s*x; people "want" to have s*x. Yes, it will hurt alot, because you are still a child, physically and mentally. And this lying loser creep sounds like he just wants to stick it in with not caring about you or the consequences.

Don't you want your first time to be special w/ someone you can trust?

This isn't the guy.

Oh, where are your parents while all this is happening? Don't you feel guilty betraying their trust?

If you have s*x w/ this selfish liar, you will regret it- -more than you know.

Wait for the right one.

Answer 22

honey, im sorry but to tell you the truth you're just too young. you dont even got your period yet. and he said he wants to get you pregnant??? do you know how hard to take care a baby at that young??? my step sister was pregnant at age of 14! her boyfriend who got her pregnant dumped her because she was pregnant! she had to work for diapers milk and stuff for the baby!!! and u said "no need for condoms"??? do you know how dangerous that is??? you can get std! you know right now im risking my account just to say this. cmon think!!! and im not saying to not have s*x but maybe put some protection. and dump him! you know what some man wants?? all they want from a women is s*x! a reall takes responsibles and love her for who she is!!!!! and do u relize that everybody is trying to help you and they dont even care if they get baned (well maybe some do). you should think about this

Answer 23

for one:

You may be young to be having s*x.  your 13.

for two:

You can get pregnant ANYTIME you have unprotected s*x, not to mention STDS, AIDS, and HIV.

I think you shouldn't be having s*x, but its your choice, and if you DO decide to do it, ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!

He said that about the shower because he is horny and only wants s*x.  You may get pregnant without ever having a period either, but you really shouldn't be having s*x if you didn't even know that.  It will prolly hurt BAD.  

END OF CASE:

DONT DO IT!

Answer 24

no listen to me and i am seriousl i am 13 too and u shouldnt be having s*x at that age u will regret it more then anything and the chances of geting pregnat are biger then you think or geting disease it dosent sound that hoible untill u get it be careful and if he has sper then u have to use protection no mater what

Answer 25

........are you kidding me, seriously?

Answer 26

Your to young to be haveing s*x and what your BF said about doing it in the shower and not getting pregnant is bull Sh*t

Answer 27

Yes you can get pregnant any time you have unprotected s*x.

I don't care if your in the shower, on your head, upside down, or on the moon. You can get pregnant even if you haven't yet had your period. Who knows it could be on it's way right now.

I know you don't want to hear this but you are too young and the proof is in the question.