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HEEEELLLLPPP !!!!! Uhmm s*x, explain !!?

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Uhmm s*x, explain !!?

im a virgin and 16 and ive had the same bf for the past year now and i want to up things to the next level and i wanna know how to tell him, without making it ockward haha, and can u tell me what to do, im most likely gunna be on bottom but i dont wanna just lay there and do nothing..

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  1. make sure u have a condom first off

    n if ur gonna be on the bottom..let him

    do the work since u dont know what

    ur doin...make sure he goes gently

    first, since its ur first time...ur

    probrably gonna moan a little lol cuz

    its gonna hurt a little the first time i think

    u can switch it up a little..it probrably

    wont last long..just let him know but dont

    be like hey lets have s*x


  2. Wait a couple more years! Read up on protection, STDs, teenage pregnancies etc. Definitely use a condom (STD protection) and birth control pills. Learn how to please yourself, and hold off on the s*x.

  3. Surprise him. Find a time and place where you guys are alone, make sure you have protection and then make out on the couch while watching a movie or something. Just get up take his hand and take him to the bed. Take your shirt of and make out some more on the bed. If he ask what you are doing just say : What does it look like!

    He is gonna LOVE it trust me!!!!

    When it gets close just whisper in his ear to be gentle and the rest should come naturally. You can move your hips up and down but if it is his first time too he may get too excited and bust a nut real fast if you move too so just laying there is ok too. Have fun!!! And don't forget to put the condom on lol!

  4. In most places you haven't even reached the age of consent so s*x would technically be illegal.

    Honestly, if you're going to lose your virginity to someone, you should be comfortable enough with that person to discuss it with him and be open about your wishes instead of asking strangers for advice. If you think just asking him is going to be awkward, the actual s*x will be 1000 times that.

  5. Learn how to spell before you lose it.

  6. AWKWARD

    not OCKWARD

  7. when you feel ready to tell him you want to take it to that step (and its a big step so think carefully about it, because once you lose your virginity its gone forever)

    sit him down when its just the two of you in a relaxed setting etc, and explain that you feel ready.

    this most likely will be an awkward conversation, there is no getting around that.

    but when you do it, make sure its in a relaxing environment, with soft lighting (lamp or something like that)

    and make sure you have protection, and most likely a water based lubricant because it may hurt a little bit.

    make sure to tell your boyfriend to take it slowly as you don't want to make it hurt unnecessarily by going to fast, and that includes 'entry'

    try and make it a memorable experience but in a good way, like, a very personal thing with eye contact and kissing etc.

    but don't forget, its a big step to take in a relationship and don't do it until you are sure that you are 100% ready for it.

  8. Just do whatever you want to do for your first time, no one can tell you what to do! Just watch a movie or something.....But make sure you use protection and that you are 100% sure that you want to do it.   Good luck! =)

  9. You're too young for s*x. You think it will be awkward to talk about it? It will be just as bad when you actually DO IT, and 20 times that when people at school start to talk about it because they will find out.

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