HELLO?? I NEED HELP!!??!!??

Question

i am 17 and i have 2 kids. My boyfriend lives with me. We share an apartment. He works full time but we can barely make ends meet. With food, clothes, and another baby on the way! What should i do?

Answer 1

Ask your OBGYN about getting your tubes tied after this next child, they usually will after 3 kids.

Take advantage of the welfare and social programs available to you in your area. Use these programs to help you financially, and go back to school/vocational training to FURTHER yourself, do not let yourself stagnate in that system, it is a vicious cycle. These programs are in place to get yourself back on your feet, not to abuse!!

Answer 2

wow, your young and it's hard. If you all are having it hard making things meet now, you need to probley pick up an extra job in having more to come in with the baby coming. You can also get help in food stamps and wic if your all's income are eligible and see also the other programs in your area that helps low-income families. Many does help in this matter. You can find these programs in the phone book, at the free clinics and even your doctor could help you find help. God Bless You All!

Answer 3

try a getting a part-time job, even while pregnant. That should help out some. Stop having kids right now. Use coupons, buy in bulk, and only buy what you really need, don't eat out.

Answer 4

Well maybe you first you can stop having kids.. Then i think you should finish school.. Your boyfriend or you need to go to college so one of you can have a high paying job.. And when you go shopping for clothes maybe go in the clearance section.. It'll help you.. You could maybe ask your parents to come over and help you watch your kids while you go to work or something..  

Answer 5

wow 17 and already a mother of two and 1 on the way!!! If you are still intouch with your parents then ask them for help and if not then write a letter to the council..they should help and if that doesn't work out then try and tell your bf to look for a better job and don't have anymore kids for the moment...hope everythings work out and don't give up hope!!! :-)

Answer 6

its one or both of these. you don't make enough at the job your at. or you spend more than you should. you can control your spending immediately. getting a better paying job takes time and planning. I'm sorry there are no easy and fast solutions.

Answer 7

STOP HAVING CHILDREN!! that should help alot. if you didnt graduate high school try to get your diploma or if you did then go back to college. get a high paying job but youd need to go back to school for that if you dropped out