HELP!! ASAP. can somebody out there help me???

Question

so at my house, i get blamed for everything that my brother does and i dont know what to do anymore. im not close to my mom and shes the one that yells at me so i dont really trust her. whenever i do talk to her, i get yelled at for "mouthing off". so what can you do to help me? i need help! im about to explode and if i do in front of mom or dad, i'll be majorly busted

Answer 1

You know your mom better than us, so you decide how to go about it. What is obviously important to note here is that you guys don't get the chance to really 'talk' about what is happening. And by talk, I mean in a calm and serious way and at the right time.

This is because if you talked to her after she thought you just did something that she'd blame you for, all that she would hear are excuses for you doing them. Whatever you'll say would just be blocked off from her head, in short she really isn't listening. Thus, talk to her calmly and in a nice way so that she'll know that you are really serious and meant every word not as an excuse for something she thought she caught you doing.

If you can't talk to her, though it sounds cheesy but I guess could make her at least get your attention is write her an email/letter so that this way she can reread and rethink what you just wrote without any prejudice.

Answer 2

try and talk to them calmly about things. tell them that u think your being treated unfair and just be honest with them. and dont give them a hard time even if there wrong, cuz they wont admit it.

Answer 3

You didn't say how old you are.  But I can tell that you need help desperately.  Is there a family member outside your home you can talk with?  Talk to the school councilor, a minister, child abuse or anyone else that you trust that can help you.

You are being abused mentally, you didn't say if they hit you or not.

Parents should not show favoritism between their children.  It is the parents that should set a good example for their children.  You are getting cheated on both counts and I am very sorry.

Until you can seek help, stay away from your brother and your mother as much as possible.

Know that you are not the only young person with this problem.  Their are a lot of you out there going through the same situation.

  

Just hang in there, stay out of the way, don't get in any trouble, keep your school work up, until someone can get you some help.

Blessings