HELP! Boyfriend && Parent troubles. (U) IMMEDIATE HELP, please!!?

Question

I know this may seem silly to some of you,but its very important to me.

I'm 15 and my parents are driving my INSANE !

I really like my boyfriend and I'm really happy with him,

the problem is with my father. My dad is really strict and a lot of the times can be IMPOSSIBLE to deal with, he can be so controlling and sometimes it gets to the point where it takes forever and ever, and plenty of tears to convince him to just let me go to the movies!

Since he's such a hassle i thought me having a boyfriend would be a problem with him, and when i decided to finally tell him he seem to not mind, and from there i thought i had nothing to worry about.

My boyfriend has asked me plenty of times for us to hang out at his house, or even mine. I found out from my dad when discussing me and my boyfriend that we're allowed to go out, but not to each others house. I'm TERRIFIED on confronting my dad and convincing him to let me go over to his house,( He can NEVER come over to my house cause of my embarrassing parents :P ). I'm hoping to convince my dad to let us hang out at his house. I'm very nervous to talk with my father, and i just really need some pointers and tips. Maybe some things i can say to convince him ? Or any ideas that will help me in my current situation. PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME.

Answer 1

i'm 15 2, btw...

i noticed u didn't say anything about ur mom. if she's cool, then talk 2 her about it. if not, then maybe u should just not go 2 his house 4 now.

oh, and idk if u were exaggerating about the part w/ having 2 beg and cry just 2 go 2 the movies...but if u weren't, that might be a form of abuse. maybe. probably not, but idk...it just doesn't sound rite 2 me.  

Answer 2

Best thing to do is let your dad meet your b/f and get to know him.  You are still his "little girl" and that is hard for most dads to let go of.

Answer 3

tell your parents you two broke up because of your father so they will feel bad. put on a fake show with tear and say your going out with your friends & go see him LOL

Answer 4

well either let your bf get to know your dad or yall need to just hang out at places that are not your houses

Answer 5

..sneak out..totally kidding..ask your dad why he won't..if its down the 'you might conceave a child' road..theeeen..the battle is over..sorry if that doesn't help..i'm just trying to get YAHOO points here..lol.