HELP!! GOING THROUGH SERIOUS ABUSE???

Question

WHEN MY BOYFRIEND AND I MET WE WERE THE PERFECT COUPLE, THINGS COULDNT HAVE GOTTEN ANY BETTER.. WHICH ISZ WHY IT GOT WORSTE. IT FIRST STARTED OFF AS VERBLE ABUSE.. THEN IT GOT PHYSICAL.. I LOVE HIM SO MUCH AND I KNOW HE LOVES ME PLEASE HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO..

P.S IM ONLY 17

Answer 1

He doesn't love you if he abuses you: get the h**l away from him and don't look back. Get the cops to help you if you can't get out. Go to therapy so that you don't repeat this in the future. THere are alot of good guys out there, he is not one of them.

Answer 2

He doesn't love you...jeez....open your eyes...  

Answer 3

I was 15/16 when this exact thing happened to me. If these other responders don't get it yet, you can't just up an leave. You fear for your life and have to do it with 100% support for family and friends and the law.

I have been you. I know EXACTLY what you're feeling...you love him, he possesses you. You are his doll to sit on a shelf and not let anyone else touch...he probably gets mad when you want to see your friends, family, go out dressed up without him, then let him know where you are at all times, etc...right?! Yes. I know. Sadly, he doesn't know what love is. That isn't love, and the nice guy routine he used to get you was a lie too. Sad but true. I had to get the law involved. Told everyone that mattered in my life my plan to get him out and asked for help.

People don't understand this type of relationship if they have never been in one. Please don't assume that they do. I urge you to leave, get help, and even talk to a therapist. I had post traumatic stress syndrome (PTS) after my experience. Verbal to physical is the common pattern. You're not alone. Don't feel like you are.

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Answer 4

Wow. I don't know what to say. I will start things off by saying that I'm very sorry that your relationship spiraled out of control.

However, many people advise you to just leave the relationship. But I know that can be dangerous, especially since it's gotten down to physical abuse. I've had friends go through the same scenario you're currently in, and they were afraid to leave the relationship for fear that they would be seriously harmed by their boyfriends.

I recommend alerting the proper authorities. Your health is the most important thing to consider.

I hope I helped you, and good luck with everything. My heart goes out to you.

Answer 5

hahaha he loves you? Don't believe the ''i love you's'' '' it wont happen again'' and the tears after he has hit you, it means nothing and its not going to stop. Get out now before he ends up hurting you to a point where you may not have a chance to get away. Your 17, your young, don't waste your time on TRASH like him.

Answer 6

Leave. Now. Seek the police if you need to.

You have no idea how many murder cases start out as abuse. He does not love you if he's hurting you.

Answer 7

You should explain this to your parents and let them take some action, but you need to get out of that situation pronto; like yesterday.  Never, ever stay in a relationship where abuse is used.  Get OUT NOW!  Oh, forgot.  You claim that you love each other, then why does hit hit you?  Either he is sick or just plain dumb and like to hurt girls.  Get OUT!

Answer 8

You need to get out of there! And fast!! He doesn't love you! If he loved you he wouldn't treat you like that. And you may think you love him, but do you love the verbal & physical abuse? I think not. I'm sure he probably has some good qualities, but the abuse would overide the other stuff majorly! Seriously, do you want to keep getting beaten for the rest of your life?? Your still so young! Find someone that will appreciate you, speak lovingly to you and the only touch you get from them is soft and gentle. Seriously, you need to leave him.

Answer 9

A man who hits you, doesnt love you at all.  

Answer 10

walk away, verbal abuse is bad enough but physical is not on.

You cant love anyone that abuses you and vice a versa, you two are not respecting each other at all, move on before you get seriously hurt, good luck