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Question

o.k so I'm married to an immigrant and he does not love me i filed for him to become a citizen and the interview is coming up soon I want to say **** him and just not show I really love him and i don't want to hurt him BUT he is hurting me by using me in this manner because he did not have to I would have done this for him anyway all he had to do was tell me the truth and it all would have worked out but now i want revenge i want allimony i want to keep his last name and have a lot of kids and give them all his name i just want to pay him back im only 24 and he is 41 he should not have lied he has a wife and kids in his country i think I hate him ok back to the question should i go to the interview?

Answer 1

Yes, I agree with Liz.  You seem very immature... you don&#039;t know what the h**l you want.  Revenge is childish... grow up and just divorce the idiot and learn from this experience.

Answer 2

You are making no sense....

Answer 3

go to the interview do not have any kids, and just when he becomes a citizen just leave him, dont ruin his life off revenge let it go and move on, its not worth it.

Answer 4

i&#039;d ask u to decide first that whether u hate him or not. if yes, dont hesitate to let him go to h**l, And if you feel that u r mad to love him and r willing to accept all his lie &amp; ignorance than its fully ur decision-let ur emotions drive you.

whatever u decide, best wishes for u from my side.

Answer 5

what&#039;s yo reason for wanting to keep his last name, is it because he has money if that&#039;s yo reason then i would say you just as selfish as he is.if not that&#039;s good, i don&#039;t think revenge is the way to go either, leave him he is way older than you and is married with kids, am sure has no plans of leaving his wife and kids. be wise and not have anything to do with him he is obviously a liar,you too young you will find someone who will love you for you. as for you helping him with what he wants is yo decision to make after considering everything that has happened. good luck!

Answer 6

well marriege is something so deep and has to be taken with respect, don&#039;t show up if you guys work it out then you can call again and set up another interview but you been confused the way you are no don&#039;t go until you are sure, you can get into alot of trouble by playing this games, don&#039;t have kids with that guy that will just hurt you and him, he didn&#039;t think of his kids when he probably had s*x with you, why would he think of your kids when he is with his other wife!! think about it, I knwo every girl wants kids but just ask your self why his

Answer 7

i think you need to do this on your own but good luck with what you decide

Answer 8

SEND THAT PIECE IF s***s *** BACK TO HIS COUNTRY AND s***w HIS ***, right after he gets his greencard hes just going to send for his wife and kids then leave you, get him out of your life right now before its too late.

Answer 9

What he did was very bad for his age to behave like that he used you so that his wife and kids should come and sit on your happiness, so stop the process immediately.

Answer 10

to be honest... i don&#039;t really get y ur dating someone over 10 years your age... but thats jus my opion...

if he got another wife and kids of his own in another country and hasnt told you... don&#039;t go... thats pretty fcukin low on his side..

if i were you i wouldnt... coz it only gonna start **** with his distant wife

Answer 11

I would say forget it. If all he wanted from you was citizenship he should have said so

Answer 12

revenge will get u no where, cut all ties with this man, why be used?your so young and u can do better than this,why waste your life on someone who is married to another.

Answer 13

TELL HIM TO KISS YER A---- HES ALREADY MARRIED AND  SHOULD NOT  USE YOU IN SUCH A WAY

Answer 14

Go to the interview and tell the TRUTH, he has a wife back home and you feel he has used you as many others have used American Women. The line must be drawn and you hold the pen, use it and draw the line. By telling the TRUTH lands him in jail and gets him deported, then you just saved someone else from going through the same heartache you are going through. The court can aide in getting your marriage annulled. By having all those kids by him will not automatically bring you child support, especilally if he goes back to his country, this would only bring you to become more dependent on the welfare system. Go to the interview and expose him by telling the truth and find an AMERICAN man. Good luck and you decise what is best for you, don&#039;t let others decide for you.

Answer 15

You love him but you hate him but then again, you want lots of kids who should all have his name.

Are you sure you&#039;re 24?  You sound more like 14 to me.

Answer 16

Forget the interview, you are in too deep for that.

Your marriage is not legitimate if he has a wife back home. If you now know about his wife and keep quiet about it you could end up in Court on charges relating to Bigamy and Immigration.

To protect your own interests you should go to the Police and explain that you have just found out about his other wife. They will investigate and probably get the marriage annulled the marriage. Your &#039;husband&#039; would then probably face criminal charges.

You won&#039;t get alimony as you have not actually been legally married. In any event, is he going to pay up after he is sent back to his own country.

You can keep his name if you want but will have to change by Deed Poll.  

Answer 17

What the h**l are you thinking?  You are making no sense.  You say you really love him on one sentence and then you say you hate him and you want revenge.  You also want to have alot of kids and give them his name?  What the h**l are you talking about?  That&#039;s child abuse.  Don&#039;t you dare get children involved in your sick way of thinking.

He&#039;s 41 and your 24 and then you say he has a wife and kids in his country.  WELL HE JUST USED YOU.  YOU SAID IT, HE DOESN&#039;T LOVE YOU.  SO WHAT THE h**l ARE YOU DOING WITH THIS LOSER?  YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY SOME KIND OF LOSER TOO!

Answer 18

Why would you have married him if you knew he doesn&#039;t love you

Answer 19

I really don&#039;t know that I would play the GET BACK CARD. It always seems to back fire on me. I have started using the new approach of doing what is right. Pray about it and ask God to send you an answer. He will. But you have to have faith.  

Answer 20

h**l NOOO!! F HIM HARD WITH NOOOOO GREASE!!!

Answer 21

**** yes...and dob him in. (hee hee hee)