HELP! Huge v****a..?

Question

I'm 14, and I'm quite healthy. I haven't had s*x or anything.. but I do m********e, maybe a few times a week. The 'lips' of my v****a seem HUGE. And the front of my v****a is massive too.. it's just like this bump of what seems like flab. I can't go swimming without being embarrassed.. because it's so big that it looks like a p***s. Well not really, but it stands out and I hate it.

Are there any exercises that I could do to make it smaller? Or at least make it less noticeable?

And my boyfriend has been wanting to touch me down there.. but I've said no every time, and he's totally cool with that. But, the only reason I'm saying no is because I'm so ashamed.

I don't want to ask my mum about it.. it's just so embarrassing. And I'm too young to go to a doctor by myself.

Do I need to lose some weight, maybe?

I'm 158cm tall, 52kg.

Any help would be greatly appreciated!

Answer 1

I have the bump thing. Sorry i dont know what to do about it.

Its perfectly normal x

Answer 2

Hey hun! there is no even need to go to the doctor as this is a common problem!!What makes it so common??? Its because every v****a is different, we all come in different shapes or sizes. its like our faces no one has the exact same features as us!

Its good that your boyfriend isn't pressuring you into anything!

If we all had th same v****a that was perfect and small what would be the fun in that?

Good look as there is nothing to worry about! x*x

Answer 3

Hija, there is nothing to be ashamed of with God's gift. If you are more blessed down there than the rest, take it in stride. You don't have to flaunt it nor be ashamed of it. God has a reason for everything. Some beauty contestants use pads to make their fronts seem bigger. Relax, and preserve your virginity for the guy you really love, not just to please a guy.

Answer 4

If,you are not making it up,it maybe corrected by surgery.

Answer 5

The bump thing is all in your head. People convince themselves these things. And who doesn't love big "lower" lips? Men go crazy for them.

Don't throw your innocence away thought you're only 15! =[

Everyone's thingy is differeny as well, there's plenty of people with big lips though so don't worry about a thing xoxoxox

Answer 6

Canali G- you suggest vaginal surgery to a 14year old? And you say that you are a doctor? Please. You are obviously some weirdo creep. A true medical professional would never suggest something like that.

To the OP, Every woman thinks that something about her b*****s or v****a is abnormal. Every body is different, unique. Don't worry about it.

And FYI between us girls, if your boyfriend did touch you "down there" believe me, he would be so happy to touch it he would not be thinking about your v****a being "massive" no matter what size your v****a is.

Answer 7

Oh kiddo... relax. Every v****a comes in all shapes and sizes. You are NOT abnormal.

No need to feel weird, gross or different... you aren't. Promise.

Answer 8

Ignore "Dr." Canali G.  If he's ever actually practiced medicine, he obviously never got good enough at it to be a pro.

Women's genitals come in all shapes, sizes and colours.

Some have big, puffy outer lips and tiny little inner ones that can't even be seen without spreading their legs and outer lips both... some have smallish outer lips and inner lips that stick out firmly from them or hang... some have one lip that's one shape and the other lip is completely different.   Some have really big or really little clitorises.

Knowing and accepting your unique "genital geography" isn't something mothers usually pass along to their daughters... but it's something every woman should learn.

See the life-drawings at:

http://bettydodson.com/subsex41genart.ht...

See also the user-submitted photos at:

http://bettydodson.com/subgenit.htm

The female genitals in every one of these pictures are perfectly normal in every way.  It's very unlikely that yours are *not* normal, and you should get to know them well and learn to love them.   They're a very important part of what it means to be *you*.

Answer 9

suck it up and talk to your mom and/or doctor