HELP I'M Take too long to ***?

Question

ok me and my girlfriend have been dating for 5 months and we have s*x, she has fun and i can go for hours without cumming(going all the way). a couple days ago i got a hand job and it took her 1 hour of stroking(wit lube) and yet i didn't cu.m How can i cu.m within 15-20 min?( or how ever long every one else does)

ps its called Delayed Ejaculation

Answer 1

I have the opposite problem!  I only last 30 seconds to a minute or two!  I'd love to be able to last 5 - 10 minutes.  

Answer 2

it might be because u r older or if you ejaculate a lot during the day yourself that could be an issue or u just arnt as excited about s*x as u used to be

Answer 3

dude youre complaining.

most dudes complain of the exact opposite.

be glad youre blessed man or maybe youre girlfriend just doesnt know what shes doing.

Answer 4

I love my stamina too. Take it as a blessing, I do. But let's not brag.

Answer 5

I have the same experience - delayed ejaculation, ending up unhappy ending and some hurt feelings. Time is money.... making love too long does not means good, both party should c um at the same time. If the other party already c um, you still have not c um, making the other party afraid of you because the other party is already exhausted and need rest.

You should not control your c um.... it is very important. C um should in the range of 30mins to 1 hour.

In your passage, you did not mentioned your p***s is circumsize or not? How often do you m********e? Your sperm colour and volume? Your s*x position? and etc. You need time to find out what caused your delayed ejaculation?

To me, I solved my problem after finding out the causes of delayed ejaculation.

Answer 6

I had the same problem as a result of the lack of sensitivity caused by nerve damage from circumcision.

It took me years to discover the cause, and finally I found out about f******n restoration.    Thlis has increased my sensitivity and increased the intensity of orgasms.      It's wonderful, and it's the way we were supposed to be able to have s*x, with a f******n.

Circumcision always damages the p***s and sexual sensitivity and also decreases the size of the p***s.    It's unnatural and abnormal.

A whole, natural and normal p***s feels and functions better than a partial, scarred, and mutilated one.    How could it be otherwise?

Answer 7

hmmm my boyfriend can last for hours i love it=].

all you need is other techniques besides her stroking it. thats what i do with my bf and he comes within 10 mins

Answer 8

lol, you might be homosexual, idk man, gl

Answer 9

30% of males suffer from it.

Typically, a male will ejaculate 3 - 5 minutes after intercourse begins. However, men with DE can go on literally for hours and not ejaculate. This is extremely frustrating for both partners. The male feels like a failure, and the female gets very sore and often feels that somehow she has failed. Always remember - this problem is HIS, not yours.

Unlike Premature Ejaculation, there is no medication available to treat DE. Professional s*x therapy can help, but here's the most common approach to the problem:

Before intercourse begins, the male should m********e almost to the point of ejaculation. This "primes the pump", as it were. Then, when the couple starts in with intercourse, he will be much closer to cumming. Intercourse will be shorter and far more satisfying for both partners.

Also, if you have DE, it's a good idea to not m********e for a few days before having a sexual encounter. This builds up the libido, and climax can be achieved much more quickly.  

Answer 10

reduced pleasure from circumcision

http://www.nocirc.org/touch-test/bju_668...

Answer 11

I have been this way all my life. I thought at first something was wrong but I realized that by being this way I was more able to satisfy the women I slept with and Still be able to get off myself. The fact that you can last longer and satisfy women by not finishing before they do is a gift you will learn to appreciate later in life.If you really want to reduce the time it takes, then don't whack it so often or do without s*x longer. I say learn to use it to your advantage. The biggest complaint I have heard from women in my lifetime is that men have a tendicy to leave them hanging.Most young men are selfish and self satisfying. If you get to be known with the ladies as the one who hangs in there and gets the job finished you will become very popular. Believe me they do talk to each other.Look at it as a gift, I always did and I never suffered any bad side from it. Hope I helped  

Answer 12

Try to build up your o****m by refraining from having one a day or two before having s*x with her. i know that if it's more than a 2 minutes for me it is long, but i can see where the girl gets tired. Do other actions and maybe your fantasy in your head is not working.   focus on the sensation and dream your most sexual exciting fantasy as you are going at it.

Answer 13

You are a lucky guy.

I know it must be frustrating but have your girlfriend try different techniques. not just straight up an down but maybe with a twist, or instead of her stroking the whole p***s find that one spot that is real sensitive and concentrate on that. Since you use lube, perhaps a tighter grip, one that makes the skin move nt just a sheath.