HELP! I'm an emotional wreck?

Question

Nothing in my life is going well right now. Well there are things. I am just afraid of graduating school. This is it. I was looking forward to this for 12 years, and now, I just want to stay. I don't know if I'm gonna be able to stay in contact with my friends and teachers. I haven't seen the person that I love in 4 years and it's killing me. They're overseas, and I lost any sort of contact with them. I don't know if I'll ever see them again and it's hurting me so bad. How do I cope with all of this?

Answer 1

im 13 so i dont have much to say but if your having trouble coping with school and a loved ones far away you just gotta stay strong and not get angry or depressed cuz im going through something similar cuz my friend was murdered last week shot down in a gang shooting but hey thats my problem im just a random kid on yahoo answeres so all i can say is stay strong.

r.i.p johana corde -1994-2008-

Answer 2

It sounds like you have a lot going on. Graduating can be both exciting and terrifying, it's the first real passage into adulthood and all the responsibility that comes with it. As far as staying in contact with those that are familiar, there is always a way if you want it bad enough. I went back to school after I graduated for awhile and would have lunch with some of my favorite teachers. And the people I graduated with 10 years ago, most of the ones I wanted to stay in touch with, I do. The love of your life you haven't seen in 4 years? Maybe graduating will give you a chance to see them? Or if that's not a possibility, try writing a letter? Life is full of changes most minor, but some major. Each change will bring you into the next exciting chapter in your life, with you changing and growing and meeting new people along the way. If graduating is scaring you because you're not sure what to do afterward, start thinking about that and planning that now, do you want to travel? go to college? just chill out and work for awhile? Having a plan will help with the anxiety. Congratulations!

Answer 3

believe me im was there. i cried my last day of school, i miss my friends. keep in touch with myspace, or get their numbers and such, and you can always go back and visit the school :) im sorry about your loved one, but everything happens for a reason. it will be ok :) just gottta grow up now, lol message my yahoo messenger if you want someone to talk to whos in the esame situation :)

Answer 4

Schadenfreude tends to work for the short-term, but i recommend you leave the past behind and live in the here-and-now. Figure out what makes you happy and go from there. I know this is easier said than done, but you'll be glad you did it.

Answer 5

School is such a short time out of your entire life. Start looking to the future with positive anticipation, have goals and make plans. When plans don't go the way you want, which happens, go to plan B. The only thing that stays the same is that change is constant so roll with it and embrace life! You have fun stuff coming up. As for loving someone you haven't seen in four years, I would guess that you're in love with a memory. You're not the same as you were that long ago and either is s/he. There's a whole lotta people out there to meet. Time to move on and don't be in a hurry to settle into a serious comitted relationship. Develop yourself and your own life and before long you'll be wondering why you were ever afraid of being done with school!