HELP !!... I am 17 and forced into marriage?

Question

Can u help me?

If you can give your opinion on this case, it would be of much help to me.

You can help save me through the situation that i am going through.

I need to travel abroad away from my parents in pakistan, islamabad. I am pakistani girl.

I m 17 years and they are forcibly trying to marry me off. (which occurs in pakistan even with the law against it, money rules ! )

Please suggest a way to go to a country where i can be away from parents.

I have a passport, but its minor ( 17 years)

How to get visa easily and in which country.

Also I need urgent info, kindly help.

I have a boyfriend whom I love and would like to reach him. suggest some way out from my country.

He is an indian citizen but now presently in USA, california and working. I can't go to india coz pakistani citizens don't get Indian visa ( red flag countries)

So where & how can we meet.

Even a hint would be appreciated, if you could just understand me. !

regards

marzi ([e-mail]

Answer 1

You could get work as a caregiver in western countries such as America and Australia.

Caregivers look after elderly people in homes, or people with mental disabilities. They wake them, wash them, toilet them, dress them, walk them, feed them, etc.

It is a job that is non-skilled. You don't need any special qualifications to do this type of work. Western countries are in great need of caregivers. The pay is not very high.

But if you want to have more freedom in your life, and can budget your money, it might be a way to have more human rights, than what you have currently.

You can apply for a job with a resume or Curriculum Vitae, you have to list your qualifications, and previous employment, and give referees, which are the names and telephone numbers of people who could say something nice about you.

Then save it onto a USB or memory stick and email job applications and attach your resume to the email.

You can find jobs on the internet.

http://www.seek.com.au/jobsearch/index.a...

Good luck.

Answer 2

Since im a Filipino and filipinos are very hospitable, unlike any other countries.. I suggest yeu should try going here as a place of refuge.. We gots nice beaches for you to relax your mind before jumping in to your plans..

Force Marriages are just nerve wrecking, dignity applied and against your will..

Answer 3

Please follow instructions given in  the answer by D. P. Donot go to any other country.  You will be in trouble and will be helpless in any other country.

Answer 4

Do your parents know about your boyfriend? Is there anyone else in the family who might be understanding, like a brother or an aunt or cousin? You need to confide in someone who can talk your parents out of this. Running away will not solve the problem. At your age how can you know that the man you love is trustworthy enough to run away with. A friend I know changed her religion to run away with a man only to be abused and dumped by him when she was in her second pregnancy. She tried to return to her parents and they refused to acknowledge her.

Also have you ever been abroad? You will be completely dependant on this person.

Try to talk things through! Life in Pakistan is not as backward as it used to be and many girls are marrying the men they want to marry.

I advise you not to run from the situation but to be strong and hold your ground and refuse to enter into the marriage contract with this person.

Answer 5

Hide somewhere near your town and call your parents after three days,They will for sure solve your problem, if not work somewhwere in Pakistan.

For Gods sake do not enter any other country.You pakistan people are a trouble to all.Your attitude changes for every small impact.you all do not have resistance. live there and let others live in peace.

Answer 6

Apply for a Visitor Visa of Singapore, Malaysia and Thailand they are absolutely no docs visa.

You can travel to these countries if you haved atleast 800 USD with you.

After you arrived there try to get your work permit or a student visa or file for a aslyum if you wish too. Filing for an asylum means you will never be able to visit your home country again.

Answer 7

Completely agree with D P and Mrudul S, Don't go to any other country unless you don't know him personally or through some family contact.

There are lots of girl who get marry according to their will. Contact to press and human rights in Pakistan (N.G.Os).

Answer 8

I hated you yesterday and i hate you today.

go learn something about islam and stop spreading lies

Dont try reporting me because i do come back >:(

Answer 9

come to Mozambique,

its one of the easiest countries in giving visas and its very beatiful  and the country is full of indians and p**i's. for any help ( [e-mail]).

Answer 10

try to become an au-pair ..and then when you are there you will find a way to stay there...good luck